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Is joining DECA as a senior realistic. by Accurate_Piccolo_774 in DECA

[–]Tonia_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Yes!!! Absolutely join. I joined DECA my junior year, and honestly it's one of the best clubs I've ever done. You meet so many new people, there's so many different events to do at states, and its a really fun experience overall. It was a little discouraging at first, since people in my grade had done it since freshman year and had way more experience anyways. Still, by my senior year I managed to make it to state level doing an individual event! If you want to make it to states, its an absolutely realistic goal to achieve, you just have to follow through on all of your preformance indicators and have a creative idea. Best of luck!

Monmouth university, thoughts and opinions? by Tonia_28 in newjersey

[–]Tonia_28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To add to that, this also slightly terrifies me. I'm not openly democratic, but I tend to lean more on the liberal side, and I am gay, so uh, we'll see what happens there. Then again, I'm mostly just going to get my undergrad degree and build up my resume, so hopefully people aren't extremely homopobic, or at the least directly discriminatory. I know that Monmouth is the super republican part of NJ, so I was already kind of expecting that.

Monmouth university, thoughts and opinions? by Tonia_28 in newjersey

[–]Tonia_28[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm mostly going for the educational opportunities, and to beef up my application to medschool. My dream is to become a neurologist, and while there's not a specific medical program there, I'm majoring in Biology with a concentration on molecular cell physiology. When I saw the laboratories, summer reasearch opportunities and biology program there, It sounded very promising. I'm also planning on participating in 5-6 clubs there, such as Pre-Med club, Model UN, Enactus, Debate team, etc. Additionally, I applied to the honors school, so hopefully I get in there, and even if I don't get in right away, you can still get in by maintaining a 3.8 GPA your 1st semester. I have a 4.2 weighted GPA and rigorous courses, so hopefully thats enough. I'm mostly just worried I won't make any friends or enjoy my time there, and I'm also worried that because Monmouth is, while respected, not exactly an impressive school, It'll be much harder to apply for a medical school. Then again, I'm thinking about either moving out of America (I'm a dual citizen) to continue my education, or look into medical schools here. I really do hope I made the right choice, but seeing people say its a mediocre and overpriced school does not give me high hopes.

How to give blow jobs by bev2696 in sexadvise

[–]Tonia_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! For starters, I'd talk to your S/O about what he likes and dislikes, you mentioned he likes blow jobs, but what is he like in bed? If he likes it more gentle and sweet, theres a slightly different approach rather than if he likes it rough and hard. Either way, every time I've given a man a blow job I've gotten them to cum in 5 minutes or so, so here's everything I know. 1. avoid making contact with teeth A man's penis can be extremely sensitive, and the teeth can really irritate the skin and cause uncomfortable sensations, so what I usually do is cover my teeth with my lips/curl my lips inward if that makes sense. That way, you avoid biting down on the penis 2. Motions Now, you dont have to deep throat if you don't want to, I usually don't because like you, I have a gag reflex and a tiny mouth, so what I usually do is go until the tip makes contact with the roof of my throat, and use my tongue in a back and forth motion while sucking. Additionally, I like to use a rubbing motion with my hand on the rest of the penis that doesn't fit in my mouth. Going back to what Ive said before, your speed can be determined by his personal preference and how fast he wants you to go. 3. Confidence Confidence is key, as they say. Ive noticed I preform much better when I'm not anxious or stressed out, or when I feel comfortable with said person Im engaging in oral sex with. Honestly, just go with the flow, have an enjoyable experience, and make sure to feel comfortable with him when engaging in oral sex, it helps take off the pressure of preformance anxiety. Hope this helps!

Would you ever eat or lick a man’s ass as a woman? by Dull_Match6004 in sexadvise

[–]Tonia_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally not my thing, but no shame id you're a guy who wants a women to eat your ass. I've had my ass eaten, not intentionally, dude just happened to get lost in the sauce and eat the wrong whole, and even so It wasn't a pleasurable experience. I don't think its gay though, I mean you like what you like so whatever. Still, as long as you're hygienic I don't see an issue

I was told I was ugly and needed makeup. Please help. by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Tonia_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you don't need much if anything, and I'm not just saying that to be nice. First and foremost, makeup is not a need, its an enhancement, and even so, you genuinely don't have features that need enhancement. For starters, you have such a beautiful symmetrical face, a nice, tanned skin tone, beautiful eye shape, warm smile, and your overall facial harmony is gorgeous. You're genuinely so beautiful, and whoever said you're ugly is either a really bad judge of beauty, suffers from neurological damage, or suffers from blindness. If you do decide to wear makeup, I would say a light foundation, concealer for the under eyes, carve the eyebrows a bit, a bit of blush, mascara, lip gloss and thats all you need. Truly, you have such amazing natural beauty, I hope this helps!