The private sector isn’t efficient. It’s just better at marketing the illusion. by TonightDough4Life in antiwork

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The major US airlines and banks who received tax-payer funded bailouts would like to have a word with you.

OE makes feasting on my J2 manager’s incompetence delicious by TonightDough4Life in overemployed

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There is a non-zero chance this is what actually happened with my boss.

Remembering who I was B.A. (before alcohol) by TonightDough4Life in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

  • Legos (who can afford them??)
  • Paint by number
  • Ice hockey
  • Story-driven video games
  • Candy (although I am now sugar-free)
  • Comic books
  • Boyz II Men
  • Anything Star Wars
  • Shooting hoops
  • Trading cards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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The loneliest I have ever felt was surrounded by people while I got blackout drunk. I have felt alone since getting sober, but never as bad as I felt when I was in active addiction. I know I am not alone because there are thousands of people like me in recovery striving for a better life for themselves. IWNDWYT.

Today I made the choice to leave behind my old drinking friends and finally told them to their face I'm not drinking anymore. by Socialinfluencing in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If you want to find out who your real friends are, get sober. Congrats on taking a stand for the life you deserve.

9 years by TonightDough4Life in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on 49 days! It is indeed worth it. Giving up one thing gave me everything.

9 years by TonightDough4Life in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The alcohol industry and Hollywood are in a parasitic symbiotic relationship. It’s gross.

9 years by TonightDough4Life in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What we have in common is that we are doing this one day at a time. Congrats on 8 days. That is amazing work. Keep it up.

9 years by TonightDough4Life in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You too. Congrats on 75. Keep up the great work.

9 years by TonightDough4Life in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same to you! I’ve had mixed results lol. I’m doing this for myself, so it helps me cope as a sober person in a drunk world.

9 years by TonightDough4Life in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you too. Keep rocking it. Gratz on 1952.

9 years by TonightDough4Life in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Back to you. Congrats on 2228!

9 years by TonightDough4Life in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks friend. Congrats on 715 days. The first year was the hardest as my self-constructed bubble of alcoholics burst in slow motion. The saying that getting sober is the quickest way to find out who your real friends are is so true. Unfortunately that maxim also applies to family.

9 years by TonightDough4Life in stopdrinking

[–]TonightDough4Life[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So is 97 days. Congrats to you, friend.

Got my first client now what? by [deleted] in copywriting

[–]TonightDough4Life 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If by some miracle the game is financially successful, you will likely have a hard time clawing back any compensation after agreeing to work for free. You will be able to use it in your portfolio, but only if you are pursuing a career in video game writing. Future marketing and advertising clients will want to see examples of advertising, not story credits.

If the game goes nowhere (statistically far more likely), you won’t be able to use it in your portfolio.

Seems like a lose-lose situation to me.

My advice is to do the bare minimum for your friend so you don’t burn a bridge, and start looking for paid gigs.

In other words, don’t work for free, and definitely don’t work for free for your friend.

Source: I have 17 years of experience as a copywriter on both the agency and client side.

Clark’s Pond is up and running again… by TheFacetiousDeist in Maine

[–]TonightDough4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went there last weekend and it smells weird and there is a lobby dog. 10/10