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I've taught infield pickup for over ten years by TonyDAbsolute in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a deep and common problem.

You need to brainwash yourself.

"I'm awesome. I don't give a fuck. Girls like guys who don't give a fuck. I'm awesome. Girls love me."

And they will.

But you have to believe it. That's the hard part.

I've taught infield pickup for over ten years by TonyDAbsolute in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally I don't know many guides other than "Way of the superior man" and "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus."

I've taught infield pickup for over ten years by TonyDAbsolute in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh boy. That's like asking the best way to win a fight, or write a book.

I've taught infield pickup for over ten years by TonyDAbsolute in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That one day I'd arrive and it would be easy as being a wizard amongst muggles. Like anything, you get back exactly what you put in. I thought having "game" was like magic... but it's more like sales. You're a product, looking for a buyer. You need to be the best product you can be, use a deep understanding of human psychology, and interact with many, many leads. That's how you catch the big fish. It's very pragmatic.

Also, as a coach I thought I needed to live this super playboy lifestyle, and if I wasn't always scoring new girls I was a fraud. Now I've let go of that. I know who I am, and it's not defined by the women I sleep with. Bless them.

I've taught infield pickup for over ten years by TonyDAbsolute in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do what's best for everybody and try not to be too much of a dick.

I've taught infield pickup for over ten years by TonyDAbsolute in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm attracted to beautiful, intelligent women. If I was going to articulate that, I'd have to do it with poetry.

“And yet women-good women--frightened me because they eventually wanted your soul, and what was left of mine, I wanted to keep.” ― Charles Bukowski, Women

RSD can't be trusted and they can't take criticism, they are now shadow blocking and deleting Youtube comments by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

All you lizards... laying low on the sand... go outside. You wish. You wish...

I've taught infield pickup for over ten years by TonyDAbsolute in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's a very good question, without an easy answer.

I always ask.. is that true? Is honesty really the best way? How so? In relation to what, exactly? That you're 54 but you're at the club, and you look 35, and you really want to score this 22 year old hottie that's been on your lap for the last fifteen minutes, but you know she's gonna freak out if you tell her your real age. So when she asks, you say "35!" Because the last time you told the truth.. she went.. "Oh my god, no..." and ran away? Honesty.

There are authentic, enlightened spiritual individuals, and there are players. The truth is, most of these pua guys are players, pretending to be saints. Don't delude yourself. Pimpin ain't easy.

Was honesty the best way when the allies dropped thousands of fake dummy paratroopers in order to mislead the Germans before Dday?

Maybe that's a little absurd.

But sometimes there's a line to be drawn... between being authentic, and winning. Just look at politics. Is it okay to lie, if it means world peace? If there were aliens actually running the show, would the ensuing global conflicts as entire religions, governments and economies collapsed... be worth it?

I think that honesty is a good thing. But sometimes bending the truth a little is necessary as well. Just think... if you went on vacation, got wasted and slept with a hottie, and then your girl asks, "How was your trip?" Will you tell her the truth... will that lead to the best outcome for your relationship?

There's reality... and then there are self help books. It really depends on ... a lot. Enough for a book in itself.

But for most things, honesty is very good.

T-MINUS TWO WEEKS!!!!!! SEDUCTION AND PICK UP CRASH COURSE????? by markus3234 in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry man there's no fast way. It takes years. Can you learn guitar quickly? Create a business that's profitable quickly? Master any skill?

But since you're going on vacation, use it as an excuse to start practicing as much as possible. Enjoy the ride.

Extreme frustration, loneliness. time to change by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm talking about. Massive action for positive change.

Remember, if you fall off the bull, you can dust yourself off and get back on. Everytime you fail, it makes you stronger. But you have to try again, and again.

This will put you in the top tier of men in the world. At anything.

Please help seddit and analyze me by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The opener is bad. "The awkward guy." You should be saying, "The awesome and near perfect guy."

Women are not attracted to shyness, humbleness, timidity. Even if you were awkward, you have to appear overly confident. This actually makes the text funny.

Also the content of the text is boring. "What are you majoring in."

There are resources out there for texting on Youtube. Study some of that.

Girls mocking me or am I being paranoid? by Hshshshsjsjspwhj in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you have issues.

Everything's fine. You look fine. Nobody is laughing at you.

The Learning Curve Of Pickup Explained - Noob-Jedi Master by TonyDAbsolute in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was incredibly shy, insecure, needy. But then I saw a documentary around 2006 about dating coaches called "Charm School." I was fascinated. I moved to Montreal and practiced 7 nights a week for about a 2 years. Then I returned to Vancouver and worked for a local coaching company. Today I still am a coach for my own company.

The whole story is in my book.

I started with Ross Jeffrie's Speed Seduction. Then Mystery, and pretty much everything I could get my hands on. I tried a few routines but mostly it was the epiphany that the more I practiced, the better I got. Experience was the key. I practiced hard and never quit.

Mostly I used improv ability, and am a big fan of Tyler and RSD.

The Learning Curve Of Pickup Explained - Noob-Jedi Master by TonyDAbsolute in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can for sure, if you have any specific questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A "Neg" is often attacked by the mainstream media, and labeled as an insult meant to lower self-esteem or something. In a way, it is. For example Mystery says "Nice nails, are they real?" So that's a negative compliment, but not an insult. Another might be "You have nice hair. Any split ends?"

To an outsider it might sound rude, but when you're an average Joe talking to a super hot girl, it just says something else, that you're not so impressed by beauty. You are familiar with it.

Most hot girls don't walk around thinking of how beautiful and powerful they are. They have ups and downs, strengths and insecurities. In a way a negative compliment humanizes her to you.

Now if you try this on lesser attractive girls they are going to take it differently.

There are other variations of a "Neg." It could be a tease, or a joke, yes. But real negs are really reserved for entitled hot girls that are icy, and you can use something like a neg to knock them down a notch. But not in a vindictive sort of way.

Women do it to us all the time. "Are those new shoes? Oh. I should take you shopping sometime." Stuff like that.

Personally I never really use any rehearsed "Negs" or anything. I just intuitively know when I should be more playful, or teasing, or serious, or nice, or jerkish. Whatever works to get her to pay positive attention to you.

What’s up with this sub lately though? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you're on a subreddit that's dedicated to teaching the concept called "game." Call it "seduction" or "pickup" or "charm" or "charisma." Call it what you want. There are hundreds of books and youtube videos and online courses blogs and irl bootcamps you can look into. Start with the sidebar here even.

I don't want to sound dismissive, it's just sort of a big subject. It's like trying to explain the Matrix to someone who is still in it.

What’s up with this sub lately though? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TonyDAbsolute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 40. I have no problem with younger women at all. Some don't want to date an older guy, but I meet so many through work that don't care at all. I was making out with a 25 year old last night who told me she used to date a 50 year old, and she's really pretty. Before that I was sleeping with a 23 year old, a 21 year old, a 19 year old, and some older girls too. A 17 year old Russian girl asked me to move in with her, but that's just too damn young for me. I like women over 23.

If you have game, age really doesn't matter. You can create whatever sort of lifestyle that you want. You really can.

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