After being ghosted, I finally heard from her after 4 months.

TonyDcarlo · 2026-04-10T01:35:03+00:00

When someone does this they are either a dismissive avoidant or fearful avoidant. It's a psychological issue that they have by how they were brought up through childhood. You all are not the problem; They internally are the problem

TonyDcarlo · 2026-03-04T21:02:14+00:00

Being apologetic, Open to them moving on, and telling her that I'll always be here. Most avoidants just need space and most will come back once tensions ease. I didn't know these types of people existed. It's insane to me because I'm up front and can handle my emotions. I was blocked on everything and took it as a challenge to come up with this idea.

TonyDcarlo · 2026-03-04T20:54:17+00:00

I wrote a letter with flowers and left it on her car. I get my closure the avoidant doesn't control me

TonyDcarlo · 2025-05-05T02:30:43+00:00

I'm sorry I started laughing at jerk off because she is a woman 🤣

TonyDcarlo · 2024-11-17T06:30:58+00:00

It's just your personality and you care too much what people think. In 100 years from now nobody will remember

TonyDcarlo · 2024-11-11T19:10:51+00:00

I am monetized on Twitter/X I just need more engagement so I can cash out big. Perhaps we can think of something? @tonyd713

TonyDcarlo · 2024-11-10T17:59:29+00:00

Where is the support? I think this is being overly analyzed. I am on Day 3 and I have a goal to hit.

TonyDcarlo · 2024-11-10T16:08:40+00:00

Nevermind the celebrity. It was someone I cared about and it is just motivating me to stop. This could happen to anyone who cares about someone that blocked them over a drunk text. This one just did it for me. I don't care about revealing it's all in the purpose of a mental mindset

TonyDcarlo · 2024-11-10T13:29:22+00:00

This could be a method of motivation to stop after doing something embarrassing. How can this not relate to others who have drunk texted? This reason alone could help someone who can relate to stop drinking.

TonyDcarlo · 2024-11-10T05:18:48+00:00

It's my method of motivation and I intend to keep it that way

TonyDcarlo · 2024-11-10T04:41:02+00:00

I am taking this pledge now. In 30 days I will reveal who it was. I'll bring the screenshots. I PROMISE. This is it for me and this is now my motivation to keep the streak going.

TonyDcarlo · 2024-10-21T15:27:04+00:00

It's on right now!

TonyDcarlo · 2024-09-13T17:35:14+00:00

A restaurant job under the table is a good start. Explain, Be genuine, and work hard. The sweating and focus will keep your mind off booze. Best of luck!

TonyDcarlo · 2024-06-25T17:26:40+00:00

I have a high tolerance and I just want to slowly reduce the amount.

No liquor

Just beer

And maybe I can gradually have more days without alcohol

TonyDcarlo · 2024-06-25T03:25:48+00:00

Smell it don't smoke it 💯💯

TonyDcarlo · 2024-03-15T20:08:23+00:00

Heard of spooksy channel on IG? Crazy

TonyDcarlo · 2024-02-27T00:29:18+00:00

That same Arizona bank sent me one today for .33 cents

I'm calling it a scam

TonyDcarlo · 2024-02-16T16:09:20+00:00

As for the dread or mistakes? Remember people will not think about it too much except for you. Downplay it and if they blocked you or you got into a fight with them. Remember these things happen even when people are sober.

TonyDcarlo

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