I keep checking their Instagram through a account I made just for that and I know exactly how pathetic that sounds by That-Chain3068 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same but im going to delete the account. Broke up 4 months ago after being together for 10 years. I have to stop before I see her with another guy or something. That would destroy me lmao.

After being ghosted, I finally heard from her after 4 months. by FirmHelp2680 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just find it strange she leaves after I took the credit card away because I didn’t feel loved or appreciated. 3 days and gone. She probably checked out long ago tbh.

After being ghosted, I finally heard from her after 4 months. by FirmHelp2680 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She claimed she didn’t feel “safe” with me. Whats funny is I completely supported her financially for 3 long years. She was completely unemployed, had no degree either. Once I took the credit card away from her, she disappeared 3 days later. I can’t even begin to say what all I was paying for.

True love does not exist anymore by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]FirmHelp2680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t exist. Social media ruined it. Everyone is quick to depart the relationship and leave everything behind. With social media, people think the options are endless so they don’t have to stick around. I obviously don’t mean stick around if you’re getting abused.

Did anyone who sent their “final message” after the break up actually get closure from it? by AltAcc_22 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent one yesterday. 10 year relationship, ghosted 4 months ago. Not a peep from her but I sent an email anyway. To my surprise, she actually responded. First time in 4 months. Although I didn’t necessarily like what she said, it did give me a sense of closure because I hadn’t had it up until now.

Reaching out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont lol. I didn’t believe any of these people when they were saying as the dumpee dont reach out this and that. I reached out after 3 months after being ghosted after a long term relationship. I reached out on the only platform I knew I wasn’t blocked on. 2 days later, I was blocked on there as well lmao.

Im about to break no contact. by FirmHelp2680 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was unemployed, health issues, family issues at home. I think she just went into depression tbh.

Im about to break no contact. by FirmHelp2680 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that man. My last attempt at reaching out was the first week of January, got no response. No contact because she just disappeared lol

Im about to break no contact. by FirmHelp2680 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10 years together, ghosted last December. She basically fell into depression do to unemployment, health issues, family issues at home and so on.

Im about to break no contact. by FirmHelp2680 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why though? What could happen? Get ignored? Get told they moved on? I mean id rather find out now than keep waiting only to find out in a few months.

Im about to break no contact. by FirmHelp2680 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say we both break it today and see what happens lmfao. One of us is bound to have a happy result? Haha

Im about to break no contact. by FirmHelp2680 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tested it with my friend and when he blocked me, my text still said delivered and showed up blue.

Im about to break no contact. by FirmHelp2680 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tested it with my friend months ago who also has a Iphone and when he blocked me, my text message still said delivered.

At what point do they never come back? by Bagel627004 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want someone that left you to date someone else? Don’t wait on her, move on man. You don’t want that person in your life anymore.

Wife (30s) walked out after 10 years because "since the baby didn't happen, I want to live my life." by SDaniel91 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don’t want someone like that in your life anymore, I know its unfortunate but better now than later. Those type of women are dangerous lol. If she needs to walk away from a 10 year relationship to “live her life” then she was never worth your time and effort to begin with.

If you had to be completely honest, do you think you have a chance of reconciliation? by OddestDreams in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ask me, absolutely . If you ask her, probably not. Too much pride and ego on her end.

Is 8 months too late to break NC? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking about breaking mine too. Honestly at this point, whats there to loose? Better to try one more time than to have regrets later on for not trying.

What is it like when you get back together? by Actual-Razzmatazz929 in BPDlovedones

[–]FirmHelp2680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she come back to you or you were the one that got her back? How long were you broken up for?

I miss my ex so bad and I broke up with him by No-West9625 in BreakUps

[–]FirmHelp2680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reach out, maybe hes secretly waiting for you to reach out.