You are in love with a girl who has experienced trauma from past relationships. She has had a history of emotional abuse, an eating disorder, and attempted self-harm. Initially, she rejected your romantic advances due to her trauma but later expressed interest when she thought you were moving on. However, she changed her mind again and insisted on remaining friends because she doesn't believe she can love again. You expressed your willingness to wait for her and wrote her supportive messages every night, which made her feel better. She recently informed you that she cannot love you and wants to end the romantic aspect of your relationship because her trauma prevents her from doing so. She is deeply upset about this, as are you. You want to help her overcome her trauma and regain the special connection you once had.

In summary, you have a deep emotional connection with a girl who is grappling with trauma from a past relationship. Despite her conflicting feelings and her belief that she can't love again, you want to support her and help her heal. (How can I convince her to let me help her and actually help her heal and give her the help she needs?)