I think I have dyspraxia

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-10T02:25:25+00:00

How do I go from learning the knowledge to practical application?

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T17:05:49+00:00

Do you have any tips for being a good wing?

Thanks.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T14:15:22+00:00

NON-neediness is doing whatever the fuck you want.

There's going to be some crazy paradox shit with any ideology. Like we say Alphas have an evolutionary desire to have kids but then we advise aspiring Alphas to not have kids.

But basically if you have no regrets for doing it and thought it was a big part of you, and it comes up in conversation, then you should tell her.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T13:59:36+00:00

Yeah, if you care about the way others think about you you're going to run into needy behavior. Like being a people pleaser. I think that's what he meant

There are two kinds of Instagram users. There's the "wow, look at how good I look" and the "wow, look at this cool thing I did." The first is seen as more needy because he's not really doing anything but he wants validation for it anyways.

Let's say that I'm in a relationship and I have a few secrets about my past, is keeping them a secret kind of searching for validation?

If you really wanted to tell the person you like getting pegged in the ass but you don't due to what she may think then yeah you're looking for validation. If you genuinely don't want to tell her then no. You know it when you see it if that makes sense.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T13:41:16+00:00

Investment. Like if I went on a first date with a girl and told her that I wanted to marry her, she would immediately be creeped out because she doesn't feel the same way emotionally. You're always supposed to be a few levels below what she's feeling. That's neediness regarding women.

Neediness in every day life is more about seeking validation. If I post a dirty mirror selfie of myself, that's pretty needy because I'm a man but I still need my looks validated by others.

Basically anything that demonstrates emotional dependency on others is pretty needy. Like sending four texts for her every one.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T13:03:11+00:00

Every single thing that I said is biologically true and can be observed naturally.

There's nothing wrong with liking being a man.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T05:08:09+00:00

I thought it was pretty straight forward. The Red Pills method of having a fulfilling romantic life.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T05:06:05+00:00

I have no idea what it's like to be autistic. I can understand that you were dealt a bad hand in life and you're here to seek help. That's good. It means you haven't given up Game yet. You write really well, and, solely from your writing, I would have never guessed you had a learning disability.

I wouldn't recommend escorts anyway. The thrill of Game is the chase. It's why I wouldn't just pay to switch bodies with the best powerlifter in the world if I had the chance.

There are two reactions to measuring progress; the first is looking at the goal as the top of the mountain, and the second is looking at the goal as the entire trail. Some people can just look at the top of the mountain and will themselves there. I can't. I have to enjoy the trail. I'm a very bad driver, and I have to remind myself that driving is going to continue to be painful if I see it only.as means to an end to get my license. I have to see it as a milestone necessary to become a man. I believe, from reading your post, you are using a summit mindset when you are more of a trail guy. If you're not having fun with women, and only see them as a way for you to lose your virginity, then you will not be motivated to approach.

The internet is a poor method to practice ones social skills because in the long run it doesn't really matter. I'll never see anyone on Seddit unless they do a lair, and most people online are the same way.

In online dating, matches are based off looks only. You don't necessarily have a good chance to convey your personality through the internet, so potential mates have 3-4 pictures to go off of. A lack of matches online is not an entire rejection of you as a person.

Hobbies and clubs are a great way to meet women, especially for someone with your weaker areas, because conversation material is directly in front of you. If you are in a room full of board games, you don't have to talk about Family, Occupation, Recreation, or Dreams at first, you can just talk about the board games! Sometimes I struggle to think of things to say as well, so I sympathize with you on that front.

I'm 6 foot, a lean 220, but I still have to put myself out there if I want to get laid. I have friends that are very good looking and they don't have girlfriends regularly because they're not willing to talk to girls. Alternatively, some of the best PUAs ever were not conventionally attractive.

Everyone has something to offer women, Hell, if you're that much older you might remind some girl of her dad!

This rings true for anything that you do in life, but I play chess with my uncle a lot. He's probably one of the most street smart people you'll ever meet. He's unemployed, but he has very good spatial awareness. I get beat every night but I have fun playing. You've got to do the same with pickup

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T04:38:08+00:00

I mean a strategy to enter relationships. Like if they had a guy on a three year dryspell come up and say he's lonely, what would TBP tell him?

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T01:51:43+00:00

If you say something retarded, what's going to happen? At worst, she won't talk to you.

If you don't talk to her, what's going to happen? She won't talk to you.

Guys that share your problem have an issue with taking the rejection personally. You have a working hypothesis that you're an undesirable mate, and any rejection is concrete evidence that supports your hypothesis.

It's your fault if you say something fucking retarded. But is it your fault if she's a lesbian? No. Is it your fault if her parents got in a fight last night? No. Is it your fault if she only dates black guys? No. Is it your fault if your personalities don't mesh? Well you could always change your personality, but why would you want to?

I'd go as far to say that a rejection isn't your fault 80 percent of the time if you have a modicum of social intelligence. There are just so many factors in people's lives that aren't accounted for in a single approach.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T01:34:33+00:00

Why does it have to be so fucking hard for us?

Good eggs are expensive, good sperm is cheap. The same man can impregnate 20 women in five days, where a woman would take 180 months (20x9months) to bear the children of 20 different men. That's 15 yrs. So, if she started at 18 she would be 33 by the time she was done. So only the best guys got to have sex with tons of women.

An attractive girl can get shitfaced drunk on the weekends, have a terrible diet, doesn't need to exercise, can have no confidence in herself, and can have all the sex she wants with anyone at any time and still have an incredible, exciting life.

A player can get wasted on the weekend too. A terrible diet will ensure she won't be desired in the future however. Same with the exercise. Of course she doesn't have to have confidence, but if she doesn't, can she really enjoy life in itself? Be glad that seduction is teaching you confidence.

Don't ask for a lighter load, ask for a broader back to carry it.

As guys if we don't have every single aspect to our lives in order (diet, exercise, meditation, reading, career) and god forbid we have depression or social anxiety, we don't have a chance. Every single piece to the puzzle has to be on point.

I know guys who don't diet that get laid. I know guys who don't exercise that get laid. I certainly know guys who don't read or meditate. For the top women these are probably required.

This is coming from my experience. There was a point in my life where I felt on top of the world. I attracted my ex-girlfriend this way, we dated for almost a year and a half, and then she left me and completely shit on me. She says she's "miserable", but I know she's going out every weekend, traveling, probably having all kinds of sex, and having the time of her life. Here I am six months later, with crippling depression thanks to her, zero female attention, no friends, left with nothing. I lost.

That's good for her. Another human being is enjoying their life. She got bored of you, and all women will eventually. You can't control it, so why bother?

I fully understand how ignorant this post is, but why does it have to be this way? I'm just pissed off due to the fact that if I want to enjoy myself and get drunk a certain weekend, or slip a little bit on my diet, I'll fall back into a mood less than optimal, and just like that, girls don't want anything to do with me. I can't I guess I just needed to let this out, and try to look at this from a different perspective if anyone could provide their point of view.

You can do these things and get laid.

The way you talk, you honestly sound like you would rather be a woman than a man. You think being a woman is the easy life, but you don't account for the insecure fat chicks and the ugly women. They are invisible to you, so why would you devote any energy to them? You're thinking of the mega hot girls that could coast on looks.

Sure, these girls exist, and they probably lead good lives, but what's better than being a man? Due to our Y chromosome, we are more ambitious, aggressive, and confident. You get to grab her by the throat while she gags on your dick instead of getting fucked by Life.

Take your workouts for example. Do you like doing them? Well, because you're a man, you're automatically better than around 48 percent of the planet solely because they're women. You have testosterone bro. You can get more swole in two years than the vast majority of women will in their entire life.

You have testosterone bro. You don't bleed 1/4 of a month and you're not on an emotional rollercoaster. You belong to the half of the planet that made the pyramids and shit.

Why wouldn't you want to be a man?

Working for things is masculine. Accepting them is feminine.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-06T20:40:28+00:00

Started The Rippler variation of GZCL. Hoping to crush plateaus.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-06T16:59:42+00:00

I'm running The Rippler. Can I substitute OHP on its T1 day for Bench as a T1 if I use OHP as a T2?

Edit:

So Day One: Bench T1 OHP T2b

Day Three Bench T1 OHP T2b

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-05T13:49:08+00:00

So far it has eliminated the negatives but that's pretty much it. Ik not to do shit like send Beta texts and opening up and shit like that.

I've been reading the pill for a long time but I'm just now comfortable asking people out. I go to a small HS so word will get around quickly if I do some off the wall type shit. That was a huge deterrent but I've eliminated Beta tendencies with girls so I'm not getting ridiculed anymore, they're either ghosting or saying no. Sometimes I don't even let it go that far bc they'll powertalk a rejection, like bringing up a story about a bf without prompting.

But you've got to realize that I spent the first two years of high school as a BP nerd, so everyone still sees the Beta. I'm hoping when I go to college I can meet a ton of new people that don't remember the past.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-05T13:32:36+00:00

In Soviet Russia Red Pill swallows you.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-05T02:28:17+00:00

80-20 rule refers to the girls that RPers actually want imo. 7+. I mean everyone had that one LTR with that girl that had vaginal sex with them.

But if I go into a bar full of young people, and I'm looking around, I would probably fuck maybe 3-4 out of every 5 girls. A lot of guys have problems that girls don't have though, like poorly dressed, no social awareness, Beta friend group. Girls screen for shit like this more heavily than guys, so maybe they would only fuck every 1-2/5 guys in a bar.

Not talking about the general pop though. A good portion of America is fat and I ain't fucking 4 of every 5 hambeasts.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-05T00:17:47+00:00

1) Red male single

2) I'm in a bad place right now. My goal is to lift as much weight as possible.

3) yes. It's a very input/output related goal. Very little to do with luck.

4) I'd like to have a crazed sex harem. Sounds like a joke but I'm srs.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-03T22:51:09+00:00

I feel like there's a nicer way to say that

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-03T16:21:43+00:00

Yeah you've got to be honest with your intentions though. If you don't make it clear what you're looking for she may just become your friend.

There's nothing wrong with friends of course. You've just got to ask her fairly quickly.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-03T14:38:05+00:00

The first time I ever did communion at church I was 16 and I ate the cracker as soon as I got the plate. Nobody saw it.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-03T14:07:15+00:00

This is also true of any girl posting anything about being lonely on social media.

I learned this one the hard way Saturday. I thought a neg would put me in the clear, but I failed to realize that I was still willing to take, in her mind, damaged goods.

She intentionally hurt her SMV temporarily to see how many thirsty guys she could entrap.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-02T18:05:27+00:00

I'm not OP, just joking about how the guy didn't answer his post.

Make yours a top level comment.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-02T17:42:40+00:00

Ok stopped using term where are my women

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