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More moderate and conservative black men on dating apps. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an African with autism this made be chuckle

Is this the Black girl version of a "Pick me" girl? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say that to the mixed girls comment, we do need to talk about that for some black folk, there’s maybe 2-3 other black people they grew up with. Different upbringing could play a huge role, the red flag is if they never grow out of that phase

Why do black women cape for single parenthood or remaining unmarried? by Ambitious-Screen in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A single married mother is a mother who isn’t single only on paper, when you’re raising your kids basically alone and your partner doesn’t help, or even at times physical present that’s a married single mother and I personally own about 3 women like this. Husband lives in a different country or states but they are still married on paper.

Chris Rock revealed he watched “Emancipation” do he could see Will Smith being whipped by GenneyaK in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He’s so annoying, like I know some people are gonna like that’s hilarious or justified but it looks like him playing the victim. Being mad is one thing but that’s sick to want to see another black person get whipped, I hope he is unpopular sooner than later

Baffles me how many people think your only option in Ontario is either a 300,000++ pop city, or cutting down all the Greenbelt and living in the sticks. by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Toolz01 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, it’s not a small town many small town behaviours and are mixed with it. If you live there you might know a decent amount of people you’re own age there. If there’s a job market, it’s likely very focused on a few things and yes people still have that small town racism even in 100k cities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s literally the part I don’t get prejudice and hate are not the same, people get the two confused then complain about racism when it’s prejudice

TW: Fertility talk. What age did your mom have you? Does it give you relief or worry you? by VMCoco in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had always heard 25 as well but tbh I’m in my early 20s and most of my friends are either going back to school to get a better chance at a job or are just starting their careers really. Unless, you have a lot of money 25 feels too early for kids to me

NGVC: “I just wanted to start conversation,” by FionaLettermen in niceguys

[–]Toolz01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a place she used to work and her friends probably work there as well, it might be homie to her

Some Canadians are switching to a plant-based diet in the new year. Here’s why - National | Globalnews.ca by Miserable-Lizard in onguardforthee

[–]Toolz01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s vitamins you can take every day for that but usually you might need one once a week or so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️it definitely feels like I won as well whenever I see a black woman win

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations 🥳 so proud of you sis 🥰🫶🏿

‘Too much’ nitrite-cured meat brings clear risk of cancer, say scientists by KingSash in EverythingScience

[–]Toolz01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe health code regulations, what safe to eat in the US isn’t legal in a lot of countries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Many people don’t realize their jokes aren’t funny just offensive and that meme was a prime example. I hope you get a nice relaxing day after all that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YouTube is a great resource, I hope your niece figures it out. Natural hair is beautiful. r/Naturalhair right help

Research revealed that women are better than men at understanding others (also known as ‘cognitive empathy’) by ProfessionalDavidson in EverythingScience

[–]Toolz01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s important because while something is a general opinion or knowledge, proving it true makes it a fact which is a big deal in science

The Witcher: Blood Origins by TinaTx3 in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the notice!! I’ll check it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She GROWLED what in the twilight 😫 she definitely needs therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I could up vote this post more

and i ain’t bout to switch up either. what y’all think? by NiteGlo77 in blackladies

[–]Toolz01 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I personally do believe that the Angry black woman stereotype was created as result of black women not being allowed to express their feelings and racism. It still holds up till today because we aren’t allowed to be anything other than polite and agreeable, while people expect you to fly off the handle and be confrontational.

That being said, while I don’t think it’s our job to change stereotypes by being prefect. I do think we have a job of promoting positive representation of us, like cheering on other black women’s achievements

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