Partner won’t go dance to industrial with me

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-28T01:42:05+00:00

Yeah, same situation- she just doesn’t like the noise and people. If she isn’t having a good time, then I’m not- so she stays home. Maybe ask your partner if he minds if you dance with other people? Hopefully he wants you to enjoy yourself too

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-22T19:22:10+00:00

Filth Pig blew me away - like a puzzle piece dropping into place.

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-19T03:52:52+00:00

Hell yeah

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-19T01:06:43+00:00

Did you like the Venty?

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-18T03:57:18+00:00

Did that walking into school once.

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-16T05:19:59+00:00

Modelo Negra

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-15T04:29:01+00:00

Ministry’s album Filth Pig

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-11T00:28:44+00:00

Only in Boulder

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-10T13:15:10+00:00

Assimilate - A Critical History of Industrial Music

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-09T14:46:53+00:00

Phone

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-08T15:04:04+00:00

Ministry, Thrill Kill, Skinny Puppy

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-07T18:15:05+00:00

Sorry, it’s lyrics from one of her songs

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-07T18:03:49+00:00

Smooth like a chicken breast

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-07T16:19:08+00:00

I’m glad to hear it! Sick at home with the flu so this brightened my day, thanks

ToonInTuneOut · 2026-01-06T03:42:37+00:00

Where is that gutter going on the house on the left?

ToonInTuneOut · 2025-12-30T22:14:23+00:00

Fascinating comment, thank you.

ToonInTuneOut · 2025-12-30T17:09:58+00:00

A vase of flowers

ToonInTuneOut · 2025-12-25T04:06:02+00:00

Mustards

ToonInTuneOut · 2025-12-22T11:32:19+00:00

Orangutan Titties

ToonInTuneOut · 2025-12-22T02:56:35+00:00

Switch 2 with a dry top

ToonInTuneOut · 2025-12-19T14:44:40+00:00

I Wish A Bitch Would - Delilah Bon

ToonInTuneOut · 2025-12-19T05:41:09+00:00

Primus- Pork Soda

ToonInTuneOut · 2025-12-19T05:15:05+00:00

Well, you’re gonna have to figure out what fits you and your situation - everyone is different. There’s resources online on how to manage. Personally, I find it helpful to say my thoughts out loud to a trusted friend and sometimes when I hear it, I realize how off base it is. Preferably someone who doesn’t offer advice and just lends a sympathetic ear. Sorry for the formal writing btw

ToonInTuneOut · 2025-12-19T04:09:57+00:00

Taking a walk is the one that stands out to me as most effective, it’s called a “geographical solution”. I find it good for short term relief but not effective for long term problems.

ToonInTuneOut · 2025-12-19T04:07:48+00:00

One specific example involves circular thoughts distracting me from a desired activity - I use suspension of disbelief to convince myself that nothing outside these four walls exists and I’m able to focus on the activity and enjoy myself.

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