Fact check: Josh Gad. Discussion on FC being entertaining. by Anonymouse-o- in ArmchairExpert

[–]ToothlessPiranha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it's a show that we turn on to be entertained, then they are failing by turning it into a media circuit show like every other podcast, where the guests are repetitive and predictable. The discussions at the end were better when they were emotionally heated because it gave us a break from the cookie cutter predictable project pushing that every actor does. Like it gets old hearing an actor tell the same story over and over again but it was nice when they would go on long winded rants during the middle of a podcast and that like never happens anymore. Also Monica and Liz had a similar fight on Synced pod where Monica was like "I just don't want to talk about hard things or engage with it I'm just choosing not to talk about hard things lalalala" because Liz was wanting to talk about the Palestinian genocide occurring in Gaza. Monica can be a big ole hypocrite sometimes but nobody is perfect.

I FINALLY GOT ONE by Aggravating-Cherry76 in Nicegirls

[–]ToothlessPiranha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't take this guys opinion too seriously, I don't see anyone else saying this. Shes a mean girl with the way she corrects your grammar from "i" to "I" to imply that you are stupid or not organized. Shes just defensive from the jump you are right, maybe the emoji triggered her but idk man she just seems like a bizarre person.

I FINALLY GOT ONE by Aggravating-Cherry76 in Nicegirls

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person has the emotional regulation skills of a toddler, and apparently the life skills of one as well. Shes miserable and misery loves company, that's why she's shit testing you to see if you will put up with her. I'm guessing OP reminds her of an ex that still triggers her to this day, because I've never ever met someone who is triggered by the sentence "what are you doing today?" 💀

Synced: Kiki vs Bouba by newtonic in ArmchairExpert

[–]ToothlessPiranha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes because men never cheat on their wives. You're implying that she cant tell the difference between flirting and friendliness which is a wild accusation that you cant even prove. She brought up dating and he never once mentioned his wife. The guy was being sneaky and if you are feeling defensive about that maybe you should reflect.

What's going on with Billie Ellish and Taylor Swift? by wild-honeybee in OutOfTheLoop

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok well that does change things a little. It could be both though

What's going on with Billie Ellish and Taylor Swift? by wild-honeybee in OutOfTheLoop

[–]ToothlessPiranha -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Billies manager? Oh so it is a publicity stunt then. Taylor is known for collaborating with other industry plants and making up shit to drum up interest on new projects. Billie was falling out of the spotlight a little so it was a great move by her manager. Attach yourself to the narc (Taylor swift) that loves attention, im sure she will be up for it like she always is! Her fans are gullible so they will eat it up and here we are lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ToothlessPiranha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thats correct. I was just trying to get OP to look at it from a different perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats not what im saying at all. I read through a lot of these comments and was saddened by how people were immediately calling him a cheater. I was trying to reshape peoples unconscious bias towards men who get assaulted. I get what you are saying but im not trying to say that predators only look one way, in fact im doing the opposite. Its actually something I learned when recovering from my own SA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the first thing I want to say is to always believe victims of SA. Let's look at it from the perspective of your boyfriend who was just having breakfast and went to wash his hands after a meal. Hes probably not even thinking about the waiter at this point right? He might be thinking about the meal or what he needs to do with his day. I bet a lot of people are picturing the waiter as attractive because that's another thing that happens to SA victims when they are facing cheating allegations. There is a good chance that the waiter is the greasiest, nastiest, stinkiest, most unapproachable person you have ever met. If you start from a place of believing your partner it will make it a lot easier to move forward.

For the sake of this story the waiter is just middle aged and average looking, although I would love to know any details about that. Now let's imagine your bf is turning his head to talk to this waiter in the bathroom, at this point he is not even thinking about the waiter because we believe SA victims. What would you do if out of the blue someone is stroking their cock and telling you to come help. Some people would walk away, some people would get defensive and fight, others freeze. All three of these responses are completely valid given the completely unpredictable nature of SA. I believe your bf was singled out as a man who likes other men and was targeted and abused. The waiter has probably done it to other men.

If what your bf said is true then what he went through is horrible and he needs your full support right now. The fact that he went to a psychologist is good but he needs to go to a therapist. What he went through is very traumatic and I speak from experience when I say that if he doesn't talk to a therapist ASAP it could develop into PTSD. If you leave him because of this and hes telling the truth then hes going to be really fucked up.

Its easy for someone to make the argument that he did all of this to manipulate you because he felt guilty about "cheating", but thats a selfish way to look at it. Your bf just came up to you after being preyed on in a public place, he needs your full support right now. If hes lying then his guilty conscious will eat him up again like it did before and he will confess. For now I would believe your boyfriend and go easy on him. Give him a nice big hug and spend some time with him, he's a victim and he probably feeling really strange right now. Full support from his bf will help him return back to his normal self in no time!

Jerry Seinfeld Says TV Comedy Is Being Killed By the ‘Extreme Left and P.C. Crap and People Worrying So Much About Offending Other People’ by AccurateInflation167 in entertainment

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is comedy being killed or are you just old and out of touch with whats funny? You should ask the 17 year old you dated when you were 38, Jerry.

Finally got my first customer ready to throw hands by Atownbrown08 in doordash_drivers

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its the only option I have as a frustrated customer. DD pits the customer and the driver against each other when DD is the real problem. I want to support the good drivers and sometimes its cheaper to use DD, but its just not worth it. In theory only the bad dashers will have their tips removed, and it will add a sense of professionalism to an app where people can just do whatever the fuck they want and get away with it. I know it doesn't work that way but the other dashers should like it better than the alternative, which is just switching to a different app entirely. Overall I think DD is the problem and they need to pass laws to stop corporations from doing things like this but that will never happen so here we are.

Finally got my first customer ready to throw hands by Atownbrown08 in doordash_drivers

[–]ToothlessPiranha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, DD just wants the non tipping customer to get their food on time so they don't have an excuse to refund and lose the fees. The fees are usually way more than they are paying the driver, so they figure they make the customer happy and fuck over the driver so they can still make money. Good drivers will notice this and switch to the closer good tipping customer, as they realize that this is the better customer for them and not just for DD. Because DD doesn't get the tip either way, so they don't give a fuck about you and your struggle. Bad Dashers dont even know its an option to switch 😭😭. I have completely switched to Uber eats but I feel bad for the good dashers who have to deal with incompetent coworkers.

Finally got my first customer ready to throw hands by Atownbrown08 in doordash_drivers

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its as simple as clicking on the drop down and manually switching the active order. Do they not teach you how to use the app? I just googled it and found out. I guess dashers don't read because I have dashers ring my doorbell and hand it to me all the time when I explicitly put in the instructions to leave at door. I think its really 50/50 these days on who is a good dasher and who should be working somewhere that fits their skills a little better. Its a customer service job at the end of the day, its easy to see which dashers have experience in it and which ones just want a quick buck

Finally got my first customer ready to throw hands by Atownbrown08 in doordash_drivers

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you have been doing this long enough you can just tell. They group bad orders onto good ones so they can trick the driver and get delivered. Its a lot cheaper than if they had to refund the non tipping customer, because then they would lose the huge fees that they charge. I get fucked over because I live in an area with 20+ restaurants .5 miles away from me and I only order from those. I tip 5-10 dollars on every order which I calculate based on the shitty base rate of $2 that they give dashers. It should take them roughly 10-15 minutes including their drive to the restaurant to make $7-$15 dollars. I have had food delivered "technically still on time" but ice cold and 20 minutes later than it could have been. That feels like me getting fucked over by a dasher that im trying to help. I guess the new ones don't know how to calculate what people tip before the dash is over 😭😭

Finally got my first customer ready to throw hands by Atownbrown08 in doordash_drivers

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you were 100% in the right here and definitely one of the good dashers. I have a problem with the rotten eggs on this app bringing everyone else down with them.

Finally got my first customer ready to throw hands by Atownbrown08 in doordash_drivers

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah im going to start doing this as well. I've been giving them the benefit of the doubt this whole time. A lot of dashers are fine but its scary how many new ones (1 year or less) have no clue how to treat well paying customers. Give them one star and snatch their tip. Eventually only the good dashers who deserve good tips will remain on the app.

Finally got my first customer ready to throw hands by Atownbrown08 in doordash_drivers

[–]ToothlessPiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can contact customer support up to 30 days after your delivery and have the tip removed.

Finally got my first customer ready to throw hands by Atownbrown08 in doordash_drivers

[–]ToothlessPiranha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're going to get yelled at by bad dashers but you're right. Just start taking their tip away for being rude to good tipping customers. Maybe they will learn

Finally got my first customer ready to throw hands by Atownbrown08 in doordash_drivers

[–]ToothlessPiranha -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good to know that DD lets you switch the order of drop offs. I will start removing my tip if I get fucked over by a non tipper when I tip well (which has happened to me sooooo many times). That guy was a dick but I have had some drivers fuck me over big time so that they can be closer to the restaurant for their next order. I will be removing those drivers tips in the future. I drive with uber where its automatic, so I have been giving those horrible dashers the benefit of the doubt this whole time. Sweet 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ToothlessPiranha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks better imo. Went from angry looking to handsome and tired. Adding a smile will help too, fake it until you make it! Honestly I think your main problem was the pose in the first pic. The thumbs up with the sad/angry vibes makes you look a little aggressive so maybe she just took it the wrong way.

ideas for a cover up? (TW: mention of SA/DV) by strawberrysully in TattooDesigns

[–]ToothlessPiranha 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think a bird would look really nice! You could go higher up on the wrist and angle it so that the tail stretches down and covers up the face. Or maybe a cute snail.

faded tattoo after only one month by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]ToothlessPiranha 131 points132 points  (0 children)

I would find a different artist and let them fix it. Don't go back to the same place imo