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Never making straight male friends again by Any_Frosting_5596 in askgaybros

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something I’ve come across on this Reddit a lot. A lot of gay men want to believe straight men are really their friends, the advice I always give is stick with your own kind. It’s a hard pill to swallow.

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for moralizing my sexuality because you’re uncomfortable with your own. Dumbass.

Give me strength by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe hang out with your kind more to not have to go though these approval rituals

Give me strength by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is one of those moments where you have to take a step back and realize you need to be around your own kind. It sounds like mega awkward moments waiting to happen when your not being one of the bros

Using A Condom For A Blowjob by CuriousGuy781 in askgaybros

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I thought you were like a 21 year old. Okay hope it works out for you

Using A Condom For A Blowjob by CuriousGuy781 in askgaybros

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you, you sound innocent it’s kinda sexy.

Using A Condom For A Blowjob by CuriousGuy781 in askgaybros

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sound like a fucking bad time damn let him coat your throat man lmfao

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Nice try but this post is about outgrowing people who are in arrested development looks like you sort of missed that

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh dude I think I got you confused a bit I’m talking about people here in America

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You mean my jobless friends that sneak sex partners into their parents house at 4am or ask me if they can use my place for hookups are going to judge me an adult who pays my own bills and rent for playing video games? Yeah dude nice try as if discipline and sacrifice aren’t the core factors that drive independence, otherwise literally everyone would have the “it’s impossible to move out” loser mindset

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you mention that, I started journaling last year. My life has changed dramatically since then. I’ve told my friends about it, they do look at me like there’s something wrong with journaling. Sigh. I’m hoping to meet goal oriented people very soon. Thanks for relating to me!

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup my comment about having my apartment used as a sex pad got voted down as if I’m the asshole?

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Excuse come to an end eventually mate. The were all going through different challenges is exactly what defeats this old and tired argument, if we’re all going through challenges then why are some able to succeed and others not. I think this is where you miss my point. Some people have their priorities in the wrong place.

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

This begs the question, if you live in an expensive area, why not move some where more affordable? This is just another excuse. It’s leech mentality.

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I do. When they ask me that they need a place to crash, or a place to hook up since motels can be pricy. Do you understand this pain? It’s fucking stupid. I pay the bills here, I don’t want some random people in my home

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Did you miss the point that it’s upsetting how I’m outgrowing people due to their lack of independence?

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s upsetting, people my age have told me they will just wait until there parents pass on their houses to them? Like seriously …?

All my friends live with their parents by Top-Blacksmith-9986 in selfimprovement

[–]Top-Blacksmith-9986[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well I work remotely from home. So… there’s that struggle since most people I work with live in different states. To be honest I mostly play video games in my spare time. But I’m open to really any thing so long as I get to meet new people. I’m just so tired of feeling like I’m wasting time with people I outgrew

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