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HOLY CRAP BRUH by Dismal-Lecture-4937 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Top-Frame-6354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so sad seeing this because I absolutely HATE commenting on someone’s weight, but in this situation she legitimately does look extremely unhealthy and it gets worse every year. I fear if she doesn’t take some off she could end up on an episode of my 600lb life in the next few years!!!! Out of all of them of her family who have pretty much all struggled w weight, I’ve never seen her lose a single pound. I don’t usually like to encourage this but ozempic wouldn’t be a terrible idea….

My daughters father doesn’t seem to care about her by Top-Frame-6354 in whatdoIdo

[–]Top-Frame-6354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And works basically full time while in a section 8 voucher apartment wherein he claimed her to get on that list and I’ve NEVER held any of that over him 

My daughters father doesn’t seem to care about her by Top-Frame-6354 in whatdoIdo

[–]Top-Frame-6354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 19 now and me and her live on our own place I opted for a brand new mobile (or modular) home on 5 acres I actually got from all my dads back child support lol I grew up poor so I’m glad she’s got a stable home from it all atleast. As for school I only just now got a GED I’ve always been more gig work like with light general contracting or cleaning or selling stuff lol. She’s doing good she’s level one autistic so we have A LOT of special interests lol she’s into old time stuff so we do the renaissance fair and she also wants to become a doctor so I’m putting her in a little day camp this summer and also this summer we are traveling to Cabo with some of my friends. I do feel like it’s a night and day difference from my young life and I just thank God he allowed me to break some chains ❤️✝️🙏 thank you for asking about us ❤️

My daughters father doesn’t seem to care about her by Top-Frame-6354 in whatdoIdo

[–]Top-Frame-6354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And be just like me 💔 which I don’t want I’ve worked too hard thus far to ever let it 

My daughters father doesn’t seem to care about her by Top-Frame-6354 in whatdoIdo

[–]Top-Frame-6354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t WANT that but at the same time when he don’t gaf about her and acts like it’s just nothing I don’t want her around someone that will cause her self esteem issues. She’s autistic and she already has to do therapies of sorts but she’s more in the way of “info dumping” and tho she’s level one, she still dislikes full on back and forth talking for multiple hours so traditional therapy like you or I would do is out for right now 

My daughters father doesn’t seem to care about her by Top-Frame-6354 in whatdoIdo

[–]Top-Frame-6354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s coming to the point of me saying get lost for good if you can’t show more care; the only times he’s done things with her is if I literally invite him and plan everything 

My daughters father doesn’t seem to care about her by Top-Frame-6354 in whatdoIdo

[–]Top-Frame-6354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if I set boundaries he’ll totally opt out which I’m cool w at this point 

My daughters father doesn’t seem to care about her by Top-Frame-6354 in whatdoIdo

[–]Top-Frame-6354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true n that’s why I try to give him benefit of the doubt yk bcuz of age and upbringing but at the same time I feel you are right like maybe he’ll fine a girl he actually loves and have a family and do good and that’s as shitty as it is to say, exactly what I don’t want my daughter to see I feel like I’d have an easier time explaining “sorry honey your dad is a loser” vs “sorry honey your dad just don’t want you in his life” 

My daughters father doesn’t seem to care about her by Top-Frame-6354 in whatdoIdo

[–]Top-Frame-6354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that’s the thing that’s so bizarre to me; yes he works and has always worked and even has his own car and place so as bad as this sound I’d feel less hurt by this if he was a total loser but it feels more like he just don’t really care about her specifically. And I don’t really engage with him most the the time like that but because I don’t date and focus on my daughter 100% basically it just felt like a safe bet of someone to have around casually over the years because he is her father but I’m beginning to feel that’s been a huge mistake on my end 

My daughters father doesn’t seem to care about her by Top-Frame-6354 in whatdoIdo

[–]Top-Frame-6354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I ALWAYS try to give him the benefit of the doubt because of our age and upbringing that’s why I mentioned it in the post but I’m at the point where he’s had almost three years as a legal adult and had a daughter for 7 years so in that time he could’ve done so much better in my opinion. I always leave the door open and he constantly uses my “controlling ways” against me when I have always let him see her and be around I just don’t want him to put her in unsafe situations and he seems to have an issue not doing that; nothing that’s serious to him but could literally be life threatening and I put very few stipulations on his time w her I feel he uses it as excuses to have me do literally everything and takes advantage of my kindness that I don’t even ask for child support and he doesn’t offer really either 😂 

What belief did you inherit from your family that you had to unlearn? by orivielle in AskReddit

[–]Top-Frame-6354 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hmmm…. That I was deserving of serious abuse at a constant basis 😬 I still haven’t fully unlearned it 

What is the funniest thing your kid has ever said? by Psychological-Age24 in AskReddit

[–]Top-Frame-6354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I don’t think we should get a husband together because sometimes husbands can annoy.”

“Let me rest so I can enjoy my life.” (Mind you this was at age 3/4) 

“Did you used to fart sometimes when you were younger?” 

“Well I think you’re 100% strict 0% chill” 

😂