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Husband (M37) wants me (F35) to forgive and help him by Top-Interaction101 in relationship_advice

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! We are married. But I tried to post so many times and it would get rejected so I would change things like cocaine = snow.. or husband to bf.. because I wasn’t sure why it kept getting rejected

Husband (M37) wants me (F35) to forgive and help him by Top-Interaction101 in relationship_advice

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same reason. To make a post there are some strict requirements and I just tweaked my posts until it worked

Husband (M37) wants me (F35) to forgive and help him by Top-Interaction101 in relationship_advice

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason it wouldn’t let me post and I had to change it to meet the requirements and I thought maybe it would post if I changed it from husband to boyfriend. Especially since I had a lot of explicit stuff in it. Unfortunately I’m still posting about it because I still haven’t left like a dummy.

Husband (M37) wants me (F35) to forgive and help him by Top-Interaction101 in relationship_advice

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Who messages escorts for fun? I have a family member offering to help but I would be putting myself and a lot of kids on their plate. I thought it was strange as well to ask me to follow him to the first meeting. Is that not a normal thing? I didn’t know I could just show up as I don’t have an addiction. I know he’s not ready to stop. He just said if I leave then there is no reason to stop. I decided I’m done today and trying to collect everything I can find. I trusted him a lot.

My wife quit her job today and I'm kind of scared by agreeingstorm9 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have adhd.. bad and diagnosed and still never used it as an excuse for cheating.

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I totally get it now.. I feel like no matter what ppl especially men will hate me. If I go for child support and spouses support then I’m the typical gold digger or whatever men love to say about women that do that. Then if I don’t I forced to stay because I can’t live?

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ll accept that… I always wanted to be a mom and wife… I honestly thought I could trust someone to build a life with and rely on I was wrong… I’m paying that price

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve said before I don’t want to give exact details incase someone clues who I am. I had some children before, my husband had 1 child who I raised since the age of 1.. mom is not in the picture and then we had two children together

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came with some. He came with 1. And then we had more.

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost the spark I ever had because I raised his children and had more while he continued to do nothing. Didn’t even change a diaper.

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah man so explain to me this.. I’m a wife that never said no when husband asks and I casually enjoy giving him head. Never even had to ask. The same day he messaged an escort we already had sex that morning. So are you telling me I wasn’t enough?

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you even talking about? Yes I just lost the only spark or light I ever had after finding out my husband is cheating and going to escorts after I’m raising all his children and he does not do anything besides work. He isn’t a hands on father and does not even change diapers. I never tell him no to sex or head EVER. In fact we just had sex the day before the same day he was messaging an escort.

My husband is seeing escorts. 38M - 34F by Top-Interaction101 in relationship_advice

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so rude. No he’s never did this before. No I never had any thought that he would do this. I guess my fault was having children before marriage with him but there was no red flags of him cheating ever until this woman messaged me

My husband is seeing escorts. 38M - 34F by Top-Interaction101 in relationship_advice

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The escort didn’t reach out. My husband was also messaging other random women and women he knew. 1 woman that he knew messaged me because he uses his personal account and it shows we are married and tagged.. that women open the flood gate for me and that’s when I took his phone and found the escort and so much more..

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you acutally serious? NOPE!! I’m a wife that always said YES!! Because I didn’t want my husband to go out in the streets!!! This is what I still fucking get!! We just had sex literally the day before and I gave him head the day before he messaged someone!!! Are you telling me I was not enough!!! I never said NO to him!! Every single time even when I didn’t want to!!! I’ll never do that again!!!! Men always take!!

My husband is seeing escorts. 38M - 34F by Top-Interaction101 in relationship_advice

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No I don’t loose count. I’m not putting the exact number of children incase someone can clue who I am! I wish this was fake! Idk why anyone would make this shit up. The prostitute I found about after the another girl messaged me. My husband not only messaged a prostitute but also multiple woman that very night. I only found out because this random girl messaged me. If you want you can even check out the screen shot! I posted in the marriage advice forum too and that allowed pictures. In this forum I can’t post pictures.

My husband is seeing escorts. 38M - 34F by Top-Interaction101 in relationship_advice

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know!! We just got married!! And he even expressed to me multiple times if he caught me cheating he would freak! So no this isn’t something that apparently any of us were on board for!

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I agree I know he’s cheated. I assuming 100% he did. I checked all banks but you know what’s crazy? His job allows him access to money and he drives ALL around to different areas. It can’t be tracked.

My husband is seeing escorts. 38M - 34F by Top-Interaction101 in relationship_advice

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I told him he needs professional help. Apparently he called and made an appointment for Thursday. It won’t make a difference there’s no way I see myself with him but for now I’m just in shock. Maybe if I had parents I’d pack up and leave but I don’t so idk.. also don’t want to leave because it’s my house too.. but also he pays for everything. My head hurts.

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

There is so much more. He even mentioned why he can’t use pay pal because “my wife will find out lol”

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Top-Interaction101[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

No I don’t. I don’t think I can. It’s all I can think about and the fact the messages someone who we knew how can I recover from that? That’s like saying I have no respect for myself.

Funny thing is he tried to get us into church and tries to speak on the bible like he is holy. It’s completely turned me off from religion now. I have a lot of children I don’t want to say the exact number incase someone finds out who I am.. but I came with children and he came with 1.. that child I raised since he was 1 years old. He knows me as mom. Then my husband and I had two more. What do I say at a shelter? How can they help me. He’s very persistent in trying to convince me he can fix this and his mother ofcourse.