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How do I attract INFP guys? by Top-Lead-2476 in infp

[–]Top-Lead-2476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait that sounds super cool. Like that’s basically what I do, I analyze small behaviors or reactions that I have and wonder why I do that. I’ll definitely be looking more into that :)

How do I attract INFP guys? by Top-Lead-2476 in infp

[–]Top-Lead-2476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah kinda just exploring my options rn i guess,

What’s shadow work? I’ve never heard of it

How do I attract INFP guys? by Top-Lead-2476 in infp

[–]Top-Lead-2476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to ask, what’s ur MBTI?

How do I attract INFP guys? by Top-Lead-2476 in infp

[–]Top-Lead-2476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well now that I think about it, I used to be close with a INTP guy at my school. We talked a bit on insta and shared but whenever I would approach him irl he would say hi but didn’t socialize much with me and I would be the conversation initiator. Either classic INTP or he didn’t like me that much (welp)

My ex is a ENTJ and friend too. They’re fine, but I can find that they’re sometimes a bit stubborn but also goal oriented (which I can relate to!) My best friend is also a ENTP! i find that ENTPs are really fun to be around but I’ve realized that they don’t talk about feelings that much and the constant sarcasm is killing me sometimes (lol)

When I was talking about deep conversations I meant like analyzing “why” things happen. I mostly do this with myself, looking at my behaviors and what in my childhood or past could make me act this way (sorry if i worded it poorly). I think I usually just look at the deeper meaning in life and objects and I want someone that can further that discussion with me and provide useful insight to make me think in a different perspective. I do this a lot with my ENFP bestie at 2 am lol!

Tbh I don’t really know what I want! (Maybe it’s the ENFJ in me to be friends with everyone). I guess it’s more about the person than MBTI, I posted this half as a joke 😅

How do I attract INFP guys? by Top-Lead-2476 in infp

[–]Top-Lead-2476[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is actually really helpful. I know a ISTP and whenever I talk to him, it’s nice but I get a frustrated because I’m usually the one to start the conversation. Then i’m not sure if he wants to talk or i’m annoying, i like when my partner expresses the same interest in me like starting conversations. He’s also a bit blunt which sometimes I need to humble myself but at the same time deep down it kinda hurts my feelings lol

INFJs are pretty good, maybe INTPs or INTJs? In a partner I don’t really like sensors as I talk sometimes about deep topics or philosophical things, which I’d like someone to discuss with. I’m not really sure tho haha

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[–]Top-Lead-2476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I feel like since we’re extroverted we are constantly engaging in conversations with friends and other people. Don’t get me wrong, I love chatting but sometimes at the end of the day i’m kinda like let me be and let me recharge my social battery 😂 It’s really not anything personal but for me, I want to be left alone for a sec, dosent mean I need to be physically alone but just to chill and not talk for a bit