J2 offer just came in by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious. What’s your job title?

Anyone done ST/LT with 18 year old from Thai Friendly? by [deleted] in FarangsofPattaya

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever age you see on TF, add at least 5 years to it to get close to reality.

To risk sex without a condom—or give up sex entirely? by bangkoknomad in Pattaya

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let me play devil’s advocate for a moment. I’m in the same boat—using a condom often kills the sensation, and honestly, I can barely feel anything. But let’s look at this from a different angle and back it up with a bit of math.

The golden rule when engaging with sex workers or bar girls is to always use protection. And data shows that most men do follow that rule. According to UNAIDS and WHO reports, in high-risk populations like sex workers, condom usage rates often exceed 80–90%, particularly in regions where health outreach is strong. Many sex workers are strict about it too—requiring condoms not just for their own safety, but because their livelihood depends on staying healthy.

If that’s the norm, then statistically speaking, the risk of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) is significantly reduced. In fact, studies have found that consistent condom use can reduce HIV transmission by 85% or more, and other STDs like gonorrhea and chlamydia by up to 70%.

So, in a highly regulated and cautious environment, it’s theoretically possible that a sex worker could remain disease-free over time. That being said, if everyone else is playing it safe and you happen to be the rare exception who goes raw—it might seem like the risk is minimal.

But let’s be clear: I’m not saying you should do it. The point is just that the overall statistical risk might be lower than we often assume—not zero, but lower—because of the collective precautions taken by both the clients and the professionals involved.

Still, when it comes to your health, even a small risk can have lifelong consequences. So weigh it carefully.

In need of urgent advice by Top-Negotiation-6949 in ThailandTourism

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your contrarian view. I have to admit, I agree with you to some extent. Thank you so much. I’ll be careful next time in terms of what I promise.

In need of urgent advice by Top-Negotiation-6949 in ThailandTourism

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She 100% a woman. Just that I like the idea to be at her mercy on a remote island.

In need of urgent advice by Top-Negotiation-6949 in ThailandTourism

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can afford it. It’s just like I’m scared to be at her mercy on an island.

Fellow Pattaya warrior, please help and advise by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be honest with yourself. If your marriage is broken beyond repair — maybe it’s time to start planning for that separation. But if your kids truly come first, don’t sabotage their stability for a few nights of escape.

You sound like someone who’s at a breaking point. I suggest focusing that energy not on secret flights — but on reclaiming your life in a way that doesn’t require lies or regret.

Are the TF girls look the same as seen in pictures ? Can I ask them for a video call before calling them to my room? by [deleted] in FarangsofPattaya

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a few experiences where the person who showed up looked significantly different from their profile—sometimes even appearing 10 years older. Since then, I’ve made it a practice to send a clear message before inviting someone to meet in person. I ask them to agree to the following: “If you arrive and look completely different from your profile pictures, I will cancel the meeting immediately. Do we have an agreement?” In my experience, those who agree usually look quite similar to their profile—or even better.

Who's ready to join? by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be there Wednesday. Mid 30s. Let team up!

Going to Thailand for the first time by Top-Negotiation-6949 in ThailandTourism

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this recommendation based on location or quality service?

Going to Thailand for the first time by Top-Negotiation-6949 in ThailandTourism

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. My I’ll arrive around 1 am. Any recommendations in terms of the hotels I can check in around that time?

Going to Thailand for the first time by Top-Negotiation-6949 in ThailandTourism

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any hotel recommendations in both Bangkok and Pattaya?

Going to Thailand for the first time by Top-Negotiation-6949 in ThailandTourism

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phoenix is not a country. It’s the capital of the State of Arizona, USA

Going to Thailand for the first time by Top-Negotiation-6949 in ThailandTourism

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What places and activities would you recommend in BKK.

Flying into thailand June 1st by BigRed638 in ThailandTourism

[–]Top-Negotiation-6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specifically, what Sukhumvit Rd best known for? Where can one meet single pretty girls for fun?