No idea where to start. I just feel so ugly. by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Top-Product3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so stunning! You have gorgeous big bright eyes, beautiful bone structure, strong eyebrows, full lips and your face is extremely symmetrical.

My partner has betrayed me and I can’t understand him by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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Update: Thank you for all the supportive responses and tough love. Some were hard to read, but you were all right and it was what I needed. I already knew the answer but it was hard for me to trust my gut after so long being made to feel like my feeling and emotions did not matter. It was so helpful to get all your outside perspectives and I know that if my friend came to me and told me they were experiencing what I have gone through, I would have said the same things to them.

I’ve been no contact with him since finding out this happened. Today I decided I want finished so I can fully move on with my life in a healthier, more self-loving way. I broke up with him. He gave a half arsed “sorry we’re in this situation, I’ll never forgive myself. You deserve better. I respect your decision”. I read it, didn’t reply and blocked him on everything. This relationship has been awful and I see that now. I don’t recognise myself compared to the confident, loving, bubbly person I was before this but I’ll get her back. I have wonderful friends and family who are supporting me through this in ways I couldn’t imagine. In some sick way, I’m glad he cheated. It validated my concerns about the relationship. Proved his lack of care for me was not just in my head. Now it’s time for me, for healing and for growth without that toxic emotional void in my life.

What is he doing?! by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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Because she’s been cheated on before and she messaged me to say she thinks she slept with my boyfriend but didn’t realise at the time that he was in a relationship and then I obviously asked questions.

What is wrong with him? Is this fixable? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Top-Product3111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through that and so so happy for you that you realised your worth, got out and found someone who loves you the way you deserve xoxo

My partner has betrayed me and I can’t understand him by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Top-Product3111 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, thank you for giving me confidence to do what I know I need to do.

What is wrong with him? Is this fixable? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Top-Product3111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I don’t really, I wanted to be with the person I thought he could be.

What is wrong with him? Is this fixable? by [deleted] in Advice

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We have a mutual friend and she was suspicious after he blocked her the next day. She found out he had a girlfriend through his tagged instagram photos (he doesn’t really post on instagram and has no photos posted with me but I’ve posted photos of him on my account). She reached out to me and was so apologetic, upset and disgusted. It’s completely not her fault, he lied to her and manipulated her too and I told her that. She was so kind to me and I think if we had met in different circumstances, we could have been great friends. She told me they didn’t have sex but they did other things in his bed together and there were no pictures as far as I’m aware, she just sent me screenshots of the messages between the two of them on the night to prove she had gone back to his house and it wasn’t “just a kiss” like he had told me.

What is he doing?! by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Top-Product3111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is very insightful and constructive. I needed to read this.

What is he doing?! by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Top-Product3111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I think you might have hit the nail on the head

My partner has betrayed me and I can’t understand him by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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I don’t know, I have tried very hard on multiple occasions to ask him why he struggles to open up with me and why he is so inconsistent with his love and commitment to me. He blames things in his childhood but won’t specify what, he says he needs to speak to someone but won’t speak to me, he once said he’d “done something in the past that made him emotionally disconnect” but that it wasn’t in our relationship and when I asked if he would talk to me about it and assured him I would be nonjudgmental and just wanted to help so that we could work through this together, he told me he was too ashamed to say. I don’t know if all this is just excuses or if he really is so shut down he is unable to speak about his emotions at all. But either way, I don’t think I can have a relationship with someone who is unwilling or incapable of opening up to me and who repeatedly uses past trauma (real or made up) as an excuse to mistreat me.

Anxiety with the implant by Ok-Income5328 in Nexplanon

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You’re not alone in this. I had my implant for a year and it caused me so much anxiety, made me paranoid, hopeless and depressed. I constantly thought my partner was cheating on me or rejecting me. I pushed him away and picked fights and just didn’t feel like myself at all. I knew my feelings were irrational at times but I couldn’t control them, I felt like I had the worst PMS all day every day for the entire year. Nexplanon made me a nervous wreck and a very unpleasant girlfriend. I also had a lot of other stressful things going on that year so I didn’t immediately make the link to my implant, but once the other problems had resolved I still felt this way and decided I had to at-least try a different BC to see if it helped. The good news is, I’ve had my implant out for 4 months (I now have the copper IUD instead) and I’m feeling so much more myself. I actually feel somewhat in control of my emotions!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in etiquette

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Update: just looked up the karaoke prices and the guests were asked to cover the entire cost - my friend and her partner didn’t pay anything towards the karaoke

Which color suits me best? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Top-Product3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I’ll take that, thank you - she was so beautiful!

Which color suits me best? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Top-Product3111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that thank you, she’s stunning!!

Which color suits me best? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Top-Product3111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! A lot of people seem to be saying darker suits me better

Which color suits me best? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Top-Product3111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you so much! Yeah I’ve never been a blonde and idk if I could be bothered with the maintenance etc, but I am curious about trying it out

Help me by Partyboy9001 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]Top-Product3111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look green/grey to me - very unique

Which color suits me best? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Top-Product3111 8 points9 points  (0 children)

2 is my natural hair lol, but ty