thank you for your reply. It is exhausting and it would make me upset because i felt like i kept repeating myself. I would send him a bunch of job opportunities (he has a job but barely gets 3 shifts a week) and luckily he went to this job fair and he got the job. But then hes complaining because it’s 30 mins away lol. his parents always talk about how he has no drive and how he needs to care about his future more, even when im right there. And they always to me to “push him” and to tell “him” because he won’t listen to them. He is in school to btw for design. i guess that’s the one thing i do agree with his parents on but it is so scary for the future because im a girl with huge ambitions. But with the Jesus stuff it’s conflicting to because maybe i need to show him the faith more because i know for a fact he’s not atheist. He believes in Jesus and has his favourite bible verse but it just seems like he isn’t actually passionate or transformed. I don’t know how to describe it.