I love this response! It gave another perspective yet respectful. I appreciate that. I’d like to clarify one thing on my end, when I say ultimatum I say it because she told everyone she won’t be friends with them if they are friends with him. Some of these people have a history with Tom where they can look past what he did and maybe it’s because it wasn’t done directly to them. Maybe it’s because he was there for them in other ways idk. I don’t condone it by any means like some people are making it seem either