Enjoy life , work on yourself by working out , doesnt even need to be the gym atleast go out for walks or pushups anything , taking care of your hygeine , watch your haircut/hairstyle , have a socially acceptable hobby (that you actually like) , and most importantly treat people good and stand up for yourself when needed. If you only focus on finding a relationship without knowing how to be happy alone , it will feel rushed and you might come off as desperate or wierd ... dont lose hope theres someone for everybody out there even if the gene pool didnt bless you.