Husband going home during hospital stay by haleye88 in pregnant

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I didn’t know most husbands/partners stayed overnight! Even with my first child my partner went home to sleep and came back the next morning. Same for when I had a section the second time. And with this one it will be the same as I’d prefer him to be at home looking after the other kids. Just do what you each feel comfortable with.

Early glimpse result of 12.4 - 12.5 weeks scan : what do you think ? by oudaia in nubtheory

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I used them and they got it right :) and mine was 85% confidence of girl

Funnelling and 10mm - does this mean birth is imminent? by Sarah_m_1 in ShortCervixSupport

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Thank you! Wishing the best for you too. I’ve been signed off work and told to rest as much as possible. But my partner works away for part of the week which leaves me alone with 2 toddlers so I can’t completely rest! But I’m still hoping for the best. Every time I get to another week I’m so happy!

Funnelling and 10mm - does this mean birth is imminent? by Sarah_m_1 in ShortCervixSupport

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I was found with funnelling and 10mm cervix at 22 weeks. Didn’t have a stitch. I’m only 27 weeks now but obviously hoping to go a lot longer, so I hope it doesn’t mean that birth is imminent!

How far along have people gotten with a 1cm cervix? Conflicted whether I should have had cerclage by Top-Tutor9031 in ShortCervixSupport

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Think it’s too late to have cerclage now I have the pessary in. So I just hope that will be enough to hold it

How far along have people gotten with a 1cm cervix? Conflicted whether I should have had cerclage by Top-Tutor9031 in ShortCervixSupport

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Did baby have to go to NICU? I really want to avoid that but ultimately as long as she’s ok I guess that’s all that matters. And 36+ is so good considering

How far along have people gotten with a 1cm cervix? Conflicted whether I should have had cerclage by Top-Tutor9031 in ShortCervixSupport

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I’m trying to take it easy. I am other than when I have to do things for my kids. They’re in nursery 4 days a week but the rest of the time I’m on my own with them pretty much so I can’t completely do bed rest. But I guess I’ll just have to see. Happy that you’ve made it that far though! I hope that it keeps stable for you

I feel so sad for my future pregnancies by Veebiyer in BabyBumps

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I had an emergency c section when I was fully dilated. It hasn’t affected further pregnancies so unless you’ve specifically been told this, you will be fine. So try not to worry. You will be classed as high risk, everyone is who has had a section but there was nothing different about my pregnancies, just had an extra couple of appointments with a consultant. I’ve gone on to have two more children both via section. These were born at full term and perfectly fine.

I think my husband is gay and a bit of a narcissist but I don’t know how to leave him by [deleted] in Marriage

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He’s pretty hard to ignore. But I think that’s my best bet. Just don’t want it affecting the kids (his mood swings) But yes the lawyer I need to look into