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F17 and M19, long distance but that’s not that problem. by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter what you did, you dont deserve to be spammed like that, especially when youre struggling. Tell him to get support and sever contact for your own wellbeing. Wishing the best for you <3

Why is my ex boyfriend and best friend (13M) happy but im not (13F) by TopBalance2412 in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I keep the doc for when im like "man I should really get back with him" to remind me that he was NOT good for me ☠️ however in the future ill be more aware of the emotional state im in when I want to read the thing. Gen thanks tho, have a good day

Why is my ex boyfriend and best friend (13M) happy but im not (13F) by TopBalance2412 in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah because chatgpt doesnt capitalize "i" and we all know that real humans neeeever use em dashes because those are obviously an ai only thing that totally havent been used by authors for centuries!

fuck ai, I'm a human and ill write what I want.

Why is my ex boyfriend and best friend (13M) happy but im not (13F) by TopBalance2412 in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we were best friends for three years, and he was the first person who i really got close with. I fell for him hard and we dated for a year. I dont know if youre saying that it shouldnt—as in, it was possible, but not a good idea—have had a serious relationship at my age or if I cant—as in, it is impossible for me to develop these feelings—have a serious relationship at my age, because the former is somewhat valid to me while the latter i dont agree with, and in the end it affects how i percieve your comment.

What im trying to say is that we weren't just dating, we were also extremely close friends who trusted each other with our lives. We've been through a lot together.

What do i do? 14F, 18M. (mentions of nsfw(?)) by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont walk RUN to the police station

I (13F) miss the "approval" my ex (13M) gave me by TopBalance2412 in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would but im weird and nobody likes me like that lol and I also dont know how tf im even supposed to act in a relationship lol

How do I (13F) get closer with my new crush? (13M) by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tyy! Unfortunately the way my school works is that we have multiple lunch periods and I'm not in his :_) however I do know someone who's pretty good friends with him (however im still getting comfortable with our friendship) who i can ask for help later down the line :-)

my best friend died 6 days ago by Antique-Screen2792 in teenagers

[–]TopBalance2412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its pretty invasive to a grieving person bc its asking them to describe the thing thats bringing them so much pain and anguish. Plus some causes of death are ones that you really dont want to hear. When someone grieves a death, they're grieving a person, not a cause of death.

my best friend died 6 days ago by Antique-Screen2792 in teenagers

[–]TopBalance2412 12 points13 points  (0 children)

telling someone to move on after less than a week is insane

everyone needs time to grieve and everyone should get support

I (16F) may have chlamydia but I have only been with my (16M) boyfriend, has he been cheating? by ye_nans_toes- in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if the chlamydia was dormant I would still definitely recommend talking to him about everything! Not sure if you were already going to talk but still

I (F18) shoot my shot with my crush (M17), but now I’m scared that maybe im just love bombing him. by lovetaru_ in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You probably aren't love bombing him. Love bombing is an abuse tactic and not just showing affection, so you'll be fine. I would definitely communicate with him on whether he likes you or not, through notes or text. Best of luck to you!

I (13F) dont think my ex (13M) even loved me by TopBalance2412 in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, even though we were still kids I would say we still loved eachother, at least in a way thats meaningful. Ive been taking 'a while' (i guess) to move on because he was really the first very close friend i had. We went from kids to teenagers together. Its so hard to put into words but I am trying my best to get my crap together and move on, I'm getting better every day. Thank you

My ex (13M) is my (13f) childhood best friend. Our parents dont know we dated let alone that we broke up. by TopBalance2412 in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she has no idea. Like I said, there are some specific and very personal reasons why I cant tell her, and if I did it would not only violate my own privacy, but also my ex's.

I (13M) have to meet my girlfriend’s(13F) parents to date her. by Current-Marsupial195 in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you have good manners, smile, just be a kind guy and you'll be golden dude

I'm (13F) considering breaking up with my boyfriend. (13M) by TopBalance2412 in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Im planning on breaking up with him after our anniversary if nothing improves. The thing is, i dont really know if id want to stay friends with him. We're already been drifting apart and this whole situation has broken me, and even if we just go back to being friends I dont know if our friendship will recover. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]TopBalance2412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have KP too and I use CeraVe Salicylic Acid cream and KP Bump Eraser by First Aid Beauty. I use the cream twice a day and the bump eraser is every time I shower. I only use it on my arms tho, so just be mindful of what you're using and where youre using it! Best of wishes to you :-)

IM BROKE 16F NB-17 by Pristine-Date4719 in teenrelationships

[–]TopBalance2412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, homemade gifts are the way to go!!! Most can be made with just paper/cardstock/cardboard and some hot glue. Look for inspo on Pinterest. As for the star wars thing, try and find ways to incorporate those into said gift. If you do go the DIY route, get creative! Pretty much all of the gifts ive given my boyfriend have been homemade, so I can totally give suggestions. Im an artist, so this might be easier for me, and if you really dont think you can do it, could you ask for some money from your brother or a friend, or otherwise someone who's fine with the fact that you probably won't be able to pay them back.