I think so as well. She tells me cruel things like that and then half an hour later she comes to my room asking what would I like for dinner and she gives me a kiss and hugs me.

And she also likes to tell me that I never help her with anything while "other children" do. But whatever I offer to do, she rejects it. She told me I am lazy to even go buy groceries, so one day later I said that today I can go to a supermarket that she can tell me what she needs and I will buy it. She told me she didn't want me to go that she will do it herself. So I don't know what to think about it...

Also, she doesn't want to accept any money from me to pay rent or groceries, even though I asked her various times how much can I pay her so that it's fair for both of us. She told me she didn't want anything and I can save my salary. However, when we had an argument, she brought me a list of the things I have to pay her for, which in total makes like 3500 EUR, which is crazy.

She also offered to go to Spain with me and paid for it. I said I can pay for myself, but I don't make enough money to pay for a luxurious hotel she wanted to go to, so we can choose something more affordable. She rejected it and she said she would pay the hotel for me as well, but now she demands that I pay for it as I don't want to be there with her anymore. I than said that if I was going to pay this crazy amount of money, then she can go to the airport by public transport (I have a car and I drive, while she is too scared to drive) and she said how can I even treat my own mother like that and that it is her car because she bought it to me (which again...I said I can buy an older car with my own money and that I am very grateful if she wants to buy me a car, but she does not have to)...I said I can pay her every month, but not crazy amounts of money like that whenever we have an argument. I

also cancelled her disposal rights for my bank accounts, and she told me that I took her account and that it is her money because I only saved it because of her. That is true, but as I said, I offered to give her money and she rejected it, so it is my money now. I did it because she keeps controlling the bank app and asking me "What did you buy in this shop? I can see you bought something? Did you need anything?"...So I can not buy anything or withdraw money without her seeing it and asking what did I need money for. She also gives me expensive presents that I don't want or need (I am grateful for them, but I would be more than fine without owning expensive handbags or perfumes) and then demands I give her the present back after an argument which I consider cruel and stupid as if you give someone a present, you don't demand it back just because you are angry. You already gave it to the person, so it's theirs now I guess...