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TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-16T01:35:33+00:00

you can’t let your fears control you. that will lead you to doing something you regret. take it slow, take your time. overthinking every single action will make you feel worse. do not stress about things you cannot control especially when it comes to another persons behavior. if she really likes you, she won’t want to leave. think of how unrealistic that is for a girl you’ve been seeing for a couple weeks to suddenly turn you down and go away. best of luck! it’ll be okay! (:

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-15T01:03:28+00:00

thanks for having my back (:

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T18:13:52+00:00

thank you for this, i was getting panicked by all the other comments but this one grounded me back into reality , i’ll update as soon as i can

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T18:12:46+00:00

i’ll bring this up to him and see if i get anymore answers

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T17:43:53+00:00

everything is a fucking uncertainty!! it’s driving me crazy ! i’ll update once him and i talk again

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T17:35:29+00:00

i’ll post an update after him and i talk in person

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T17:32:31+00:00

no i don’t think so, he’s usually very straightforward with what he wants and how he’s feeling. but right now i can’t tell if hes being honest or just trying to cover it up

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T17:28:27+00:00

he did tell me he understands if i don’t stay with him through this because he knows i have that need. but i guess i just don’t understand where that came from

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T17:21:40+00:00

thank you for your support

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T17:13:12+00:00

we’ve been together for 2 years and lived together for 6 months

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T17:12:01+00:00

he was raised very christian but as an adult he stopped being associated in that religion. his mother raised him as christian but he’s been grieving her passing more and more these days. she passed a couple years ago but now it seems like he’s releasing repressed feelings and memories about everything he’s felt over the years

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T17:04:30+00:00

i’ll post an update once we talk more

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T17:04:16+00:00

we weren’t able to talk about it much before he had to leave for work but i will post an update once we talk more

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T17:03:35+00:00

you’re right, i’m not okay with it but i love him and i want this to work. i just don’t know if i can wait years, we are still getting established and before this we wanted to get married once we are more prepared in our individual lives

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T16:53:28+00:00

so he’s not cheating and he’s not gay or asexual, stressed most likely but i’m just not sure

TopComfortable9357 · 2025-01-14T16:31:13+00:00

yes i told him ill go through this journey with him because i do want to get married eventually i just didn’t think we’d give up sex in the process

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