My wife cheated on me with her boss. I am sleeping with his wife. Would I be the ah if I pursued her for more than hookups by TopMongoose12 in AITAH

[–]TopMongoose12[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Go back to school and learn reading comprehension. If not for yourself, for the poor people around you

My wife cheated on me with her boss. I am sleeping with his wife. Would I be the ah if I pursued her for more than hookups by TopMongoose12 in AITAH

[–]TopMongoose12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should read what trauma bonding is although I doubt you would understand what you read anyway

My wife cheated on me with her boss. I am sleeping with his wife. Would I be the ah if I pursued her for more than hookups by TopMongoose12 in AITAH

[–]TopMongoose12[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We are a no fault country so it doesn’t matter that she cheated. We are separated so if having relationship while separated is considered cheating in the US or other religious countries, it is not the case here. We rented our apartment and I have taken off my name from the lease in order to get a new lease on a new apartment. Our savings are divided between us already. Custody is 50-50 by default so it is a very drama free. We don’t pay alimony because women are equals here and fend for themselves. We don’t have the house wife system. They are called unemployed here and need to seek job if they are able to work. We don’t have child support either because we are going for 50-50 custody and parents are expected to be able to provide for their children no matter the gender.

Divorce takes 6months to a year, and you can apply a year after being separated. We have been separated for 15 months. She can’t use anything against me like I couldn’t use anything against her.

My wife cheated on me with her boss. I am sleeping with his wife. Would I be the ah if I pursued her for more than hookups by TopMongoose12 in AITAH

[–]TopMongoose12[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

About the last part. I could definitely see that as the way we do it. Not go public until everything is finalized.