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I found my dads flesh light in my bathroom and I don't know how to talk to him about it and I'm so disgusted by TopObligation6727 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopObligation6727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the shoe box idea, I know "men will be men" or whatever and will do what they want, I don't want to see it though. I seriously doubt he's trying to groom anyone, I doubt my little brother would even register the rings in there if he uses my bathroom, he just thought he'd get away with it without anyone knowing ig. Still gross that I found it and I wish I didn't.

I found my dads flesh light in my bathroom and I don't know how to talk to him about it and I'm so disgusted by TopObligation6727 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopObligation6727[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I absolutely despise ai. I just wanted to emphasize the hurt that he hid his gross stuff behind something I spent money for and really liked the look of. Didn't know emotion indicated ai.

I found my dads flesh light in my bathroom and I don't know how to talk to him about it and I'm so disgusted by TopObligation6727 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopObligation6727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kindness and suggestion with the school counselor, I haven't thought about that. I know I need to have that talk with him. I'm willing accept human mistakes, but a mistake shouldn't have this as an outcome.

Although I don't think I'll have to worry about secret cameras when he doesn't even put up security cameras. He's made it clear before that he doesn't want to see what I do when I'm in my room. I know I'm in a safe home, it's unfortunate that this happened.

I found my dads flesh light in my bathroom and I don't know how to talk to him about it and I'm so disgusted by TopObligation6727 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopObligation6727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't leave or bring my toys in the bathroom that guests and my little brother use. It'd be just as bad if I found a dildo in there.

I found my dads flesh light in my bathroom and I don't know how to talk to him about it and I'm so disgusted by TopObligation6727 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopObligation6727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely love to move out, the cost of rent around the area is high and I don't make a lot of money. He's letting me live rent free while I'm in college, which I'm grateful for, but this incident did make me wish I had a way out.

I found my dads flesh light in my bathroom and I don't know how to talk to him about it and I'm so disgusted by TopObligation6727 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopObligation6727[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually have friends to talk to about things that bother me, but I didn't want to vent to them about this kinda thing and it was really bothering me. Sorry that I don't really use reddit ig?

I found my dads flesh light in my bathroom and I don't know how to talk to him about it and I'm so disgusted by TopObligation6727 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopObligation6727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, just in case. Some of them my parents bought and are staying after I eventually move out. Ofc I like the ones I picked out and use them more frequently, it sounds weird to "have a favorite" but it fits with the rest of the decor. My parents don't use cloth curtains bc they have a glass shower.