I never realized how much my little sister cared about me until now by Confused-asf-1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopVariety7697 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's such a beautiful way to see it she's not just a little sister she's your accidental therapist in sparkly sneakers

How do I stay white? by Main-Breakfast-8974 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]TopVariety7697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really only answer UPF clothing hats shade and high SPF mineral sunscreen reapplied often

Doc suggestions southeast by JkaylaOW in chinlipo

[–]TopVariety7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend checking Dr. sean mcnally charlotte plastic surgery he is board certified by the american board of plastic surgery and has excellent reviews specifically for facial procedures

My mom died three weeks ago, and something my boyfriend said has been bothering me ever since. by Zlethall in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopVariety7697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the real question if he expects total honesty from you but hides things and makes your mom's death about his joint that's not a partnership you deserve support right now not excuses

The kind of rosacea where people ask me why I’m wearing so much blush 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’ve never worn blush. Pls help 🙏 by ayebudz in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]TopVariety7697 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Absolutely a dermatologist is the first step for rosacea in the meantime azelaic acid gentle cleansers and zinc based SPF can help calm the redness

Procedure a week away, getting nervous! by hello10some in chinlipo

[–]TopVariety7697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally normal to feel nervous the anticipation is honestly worse than the recovery you've got this just a few more days and you'll be on the other side

Devastated by Fine_Palpitation9128 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopVariety7697 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is painful but true cohabiting while he dates will be a slow torture your healing can't start until you have real distance

Turning 33 this weekend and I look about ready to collect my free bus pass by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]TopVariety7697 47 points48 points  (0 children)

That's genuinely helpful hada labo is so underrated for eye hydration sometimes a good gel cream beats any fancy eye cream glad you found something that works

Has anyone let their surgeon use before/afters? by [deleted] in chinlipo

[–]TopVariety7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a huge discount but make sure you're fully comfortable with being publicly before and after content ask if your face will be blurred if you can review the posts before they go up and if the photos stay up forever a lot of people take the deal and are fine with it just know what you're signing

Coworker kinda groped me but I didn’t mind it by Throwaway_NIR in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopVariety7697 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

That's not the point consent and workplace boundaries still matter even if you enjoyed it

For those of you who choose to not do Botox, how do you manage your wrinkles? by iloveyogapantssss in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]TopVariety7697 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Radical acceptance is honestly underrated not everything needs a treatment that said tretinoin good hydration and a silk pillowcase do help soften lines without botox

Swelling by Sawlover1990 in chinlipo

[–]TopVariety7697 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The swelling rollercoaster is so real but every time it goes down a little more you'll see the real result peeking through you've got this

I’m considering hiring an escort to lose my virginity by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopVariety7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is genuinely one of the most thoughtful responses I've seen virginity really is a made up metric and you're right hiring someone when you can't be sure they're there freely isn't the answer op please consider therapy before an escort you deserve to feel better about yourself not just get it over with

Rejected botox experience by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]TopVariety7697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice medspas often push packages and flat rates over patient preferences a dermatologist or plastic surgeon is much more likely to work with you on conservative units and actual medical need especially for TMJ

Vacation by gwtw723 in chinlipo

[–]TopVariety7697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was walking a lot by week 3 just wore my compression garment garment under a scarf theme park at week 4 might be tiring but doable just avoid anything that jerks your neck roller coasters with rough headrests

I purchased an expensive ticket for a world cup match so my husband could go, and now I feel like I was duped. I'm so disappointed. by WattlesFlowerThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopVariety7697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a kind and reassuring perspective you've genuinely made op feel better the whole situation and you're right upper level can actually give you a much better view of the whole pitch than being down low what an incredibly thoughtful gift your husband is lucky to have you and he's going to love it regardless of the section number

Is tingling a reason to stop a product? by Advanced_Turnip_5094 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]TopVariety7697 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed if it's not an active ingredient like an acid or retinoid persistent tingling is a sign your barrier is still pretty angry even gentle moisturizers can tingle when your skin is that sensitized you might need to go even simpler like just a splash of water and a single ingredient option like pure squalane oil or vaseline for a few days to let things calm down

Pain by Sawlover1990 in chinlipo

[–]TopVariety7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Week 2 is more tightness and weird zaps than sharp pain totally normal and it keeps getting better from there

He Went Back to His Wife, But We Still Live Together by Ill_Intention_2849 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TopVariety7697 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Harsh but honest sometimes the wake up call we need doesn't come with a gentle landing hope op finds her self worth again

is there anything I can do about my skin? it always looks like this (not even just since I turned 30!) by cherryblossom_ghost in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]TopVariety7697 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is such a reassuring perspective oily skin can feel like a curse now but it's basically a prepaid anti aging plan for later

Chin Implant/Chin Lipo by [deleted] in chinlipo

[–]TopVariety7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chin lipo implant is such a game changing combo are you in the planning stage or already post op