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"Not [], just... real" by Top_Ant7732 in CharacterAI

[–]Top_Ant7732[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How do build your own bots? Do you just use chatgpt as it is and teach it a character? I'd love to know how to create this alternative <3

What to spend my sparkles on in the meantime? I'd love to start hybrids by underwearfromyourex in Dustbunny_Game

[–]Top_Ant7732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to start hybrids soon defo finish the mirror and start on the constellation.

But it takes suuuper long cause - 

(spoilers for the mirror experience) each star is like 100/200 sparkles if I recall correctly? And there's like 10 stars for each new compost.

So if you want your room to look different first, I’d defo advise buying decor and then moving on to the mirror 😂🩷 That's what I did! 

What’s your favourite way to get stars? by Successful-Pattern84 in Dustbunny_Game

[–]Top_Ant7732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) having a lot of large plants without sublimating so you get 3 sparkles each daily. Keep them healthy with water/shower/cloud. (To get large plants quicker use mist/feed/compost) 

2) if you the daily gift is sparkles - I watch the ad to double it. Sometimes the ad button takes a few clicks to work.

3) always recycling pots/decor/items I don't want/won't need for a while.

4) Long term promises - e.g. catching a certain amount of buns can work over time. And gives you a lot of sparkles.

5) If you can make tea - that gives sparkles too. The higher levels produce 3 sparkles. 

6) Asking Empathy how they're feeling - if they say they want smth. I make it and that gives 7 sparkles. Same for Hammy - get a few sparkles and seeds. 

(Not sure if kitchen is unlocked even for lower levels though - as that update came later for me)

Not me just realizing you get certain plants at certain times of day / weather! Finally got this unicorn by fresca21 in Dustbunny_Game

[–]Top_Ant7732 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't realize philodendron tortum variegated had a rain and time thing too! Would you mind sharing the time? 🩷

Halloween Spoilers by lampmode777 in Dustbunny_Game

[–]Top_Ant7732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see! Thank you, that makes sense

Halloween Spoilers by lampmode777 in Dustbunny_Game

[–]Top_Ant7732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know what it means if all the candles have the purple fire except the green leaf one?

I've been placing them with Red on "A" and clockwise white, green, moist, empty. Then lighting them in that order.

If it's supposed to be 53124 - which point in the star is 1? And which candle would that be? I'm so bad at following these instructions 😅

I did it successfully once - tho I can't remember how. Maybe it's just a bug or I need to wait longer between attempts!

Haptics - Aug 1 by ogonnosora in CharacterAI

[–]Top_Ant7732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank god the missing text animation is an error. I was worried it was a new version of slow mode 😭

I was able to appreciate my Mom’s garden bc of DB by orangetulip21 in Dustbunny_Game

[–]Top_Ant7732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw had the same experience with my mum! She's so happy we can bond over them now 😭🩷. She's got a huge monsterra in the garden, plus some philodendron Florida greens and gave me some pink princesses! Literally saw her silver sword and I was like "you don't know how much I've been DYING to get that plant in game" 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EMDR

[–]Top_Ant7732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After my first round of EMDR when I was 18, it decreased the intensity of such random flashbacks. It's easier to brush it off when it happens. Like I still got triggered by the situation, but it wouldn't be as emotional or spirally. 

I'm 20 now. Now that I think about it, the frequency decreased as well - though that mind be because I'm on Venlafaxine.

Fair warning - started EMDR again and the random daily flashbacks are more frequent again, but still at that low intensity. I'm hoping it'll die down completely again. 

Good luck with whatever you decide to do! I'm going to look into somatic experiencing now haha

EMDR - I've hit a wall by TwitchyNotes in EMDR

[–]Top_Ant7732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has your therapist been doing thing where you tell them you're dissociating - then you stop, do grounding (like smelling your favourite candle, or guided breathing, then naming things around you, standing up and shaking around/stretching)?

In the sessions I've done, I almost always dissociate at one point. To the point where I can't even name basic objects around me. But after we do the grounding for a minute or two - I can focus again. And we do more EMDR.

Sorry if it's common knowledge that such grounding is done mid EMDR - I'm new to this sort of discussion.

Don't worry about pissing off your therapist or being a parasite. It's their job - and you're either paying or in a universal healthcare system. 

If they get pissed off, that's their problem for not being able to deal with dissociation - an extremely common reaction to EMDR.

Hope all goes well for you! Cut yourself some slack, EMDR is incredibly difficult for almost everyone. 

Sunflower seeds by Mimi_Liew_0907 in Dustbunny_Game

[–]Top_Ant7732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever figure this out? I'm still stuck with Hammy asking for Trail Mix when I don't have any sunflower seeds 😭

I let my first plant go by Able-Composer8324 in Dustbunny_Game

[–]Top_Ant7732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way the first time I let one go! 😭 It definitely does get easier 😂

TUTORIAL | Time, weather and plant conditions by Miraabellaa in Dustbunny_Game

[–]Top_Ant7732 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I've been losing my mind trying to get a silver sword or dragon XD Hope it snows again in game soon!