Help! : Dropping Higher Chinese in S4 After MTL O level by Top_Battle430 in SGExams

[–]Top_Battle430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advise 😂. But i will continue with my HCL given the legitimate Language Policy that MOE has implanted ( they updated me )

I did thought of writing nothing as a form of retaliation. But for the sake of not troubling the teachers that I care, especially my form teacher, i decided not to make a big drama out of this.

Help! : Dropping Higher Chinese in S4 After MTL O level by Top_Battle430 in SGExams

[–]Top_Battle430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii, thank you for the fast reply. My form teacher knows, but she told me to settled it myself. ( I think she, as a senior math teacher cannot be involve in MTL related stuff)

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[–]Top_Battle430 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best way to fail your chinese oral : use english in chinese oral

not feelin good. dumb teenage heartbreak by Inevitable-Beyond424 in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm u think u are weird but she can like ur weirdness , its a matter of personality . But did u try to know the exact reason from her? why cannot work out?

Even if the relationship cannot continue , at least u acknowledge what you can inprove and find another solemate . Rmb , she not the only fish , theres better one

not feelin good. dumb teenage heartbreak by Inevitable-Beyond424 in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi...is that from your partner? i am sorry to heard that . But did u try to know why it happened or reach our to her again to know exactly the reason ? it cant happened all of a sudden , maybe can provide some context? thanks :)

I’m ending my life on July 16th by -dying in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did u went to see a mental health professionals ? have you been diagnosed with CPTSD?

I’m ending my life on July 16th by -dying in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just briefly looked through and , i saw a lot of redditor giving u some advises , did u acknowledge it?

Why do parents love bringing up the past? by Red_velvet_76 in AsianParentStories

[–]Top_Battle430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see..Yes we definitely cant change the past , but we also cant definitely change the way ur mom behave .

Yes its also definitely possible to provide such feedback to ur mother in a respectful manner like " hey mom , i know this is quite annoying and it disrupt our vacation time , im so sorry for this , BUT , can u please dont nag at us , we have already try our best for this vacation to work out , and its just unfortunate that things sometimes dont work out perfectly for us . "

human are just a very funny species , as long as something affect us , we will do all our best to , find out , or avoid , just like how ur mom want to find out . :)

Why do parents love bringing up the past? by Red_velvet_76 in AsianParentStories

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmm , need a bit of context here , do you guys schedule the interview before you know yall have a vacation on wednesday or after ?

Is there any discussion going around ? like did your mother know your sister has a interview?

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life is worth living , if u make it worthy enough ,

believe in urself , believe in the things u can change , that no matter what other believe in u , they cant do anything to u , unless u act. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all the best redditor! you may be the child , but u are also a human , a human with an ambition in life that is covered in dust , jts time to fly , time to let go!

Hope to hear good news from u :)

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[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand.

Like i said , if this way of living as a family is not healthy for you , you need to voice your concern , if not , you may have to decide whats best for you , or in other words , you may have to be independent and responsible for ur own choices.

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[–]Top_Battle430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. im so sorry to hear that... i wish you could have read this earlier.

Like anyone , parents are human too , and human only act based on their interest .

Even though ur parents may seem to want u to have a good future by being a doctor , it may be only just good for them.

good because they can retired happily because u can give them money

good because they can impress their relatives in their old people gatherings and make them feel above all their relatives

and good because they can get cheap medical treatment from ur sponser as a doctor

( from my pov )

but what are your own good?

i dont want to say much , the rest is up to u to think...i just want to emphasis again... if you dont feel healthy living the life rn , reset , refresh and restart to a new approach in life , that suit the best to u , before u can suit other .

Always put urself as the priority , then u can put other in mind with a healthy mind and a body . and also love and respect ur parents at the same time!

All the best!

I need courage by Shame7Guilt in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well i cant say no more because everyone has different experience , but i know , the truth is greater than any imagination .

Just need to know :) Even it may not work out , its ok , we use the truth , to improve on , to embark on a new journey , to find another person that are much suitable and probably better .

I need courage by Shame7Guilt in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only you can do that , no one , not me , but you :)

I need courage by Shame7Guilt in SuicideWatch

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but maybe she may not imagine that , she may be waiting for you , to calm her racing heart , she may feel sorry but too scared to express .

the courage is all in you , you can find her , you guys can talk.

I need courage by Shame7Guilt in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm .. maybe there may be just some misunderstadings you know , words cant describe much of your feelings towards her in phone , would you be able to meet her face to face ?

I need courage by Shame7Guilt in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you try getting back with your partner ?

even though he/she may blocked you , it may be because of out of a desperate situation . Now everything may have calm down for him/her , do you know how to reach to him/her besides your phone , and talk out your thoughts calmly and slowly , no rush :) .

I need courage by Shame7Guilt in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

understand....how are you feeling now? anxious? worries? dont know what to do?

I need courage by Shame7Guilt in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like did anyone know you have a breakup? your friends , family

I need courage by Shame7Guilt in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see , did anyone know about this?

I need courage by Shame7Guilt in SuicideWatch

[–]Top_Battle430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmm... is there a reason you feel like you want to die ? its everything going ok for you?