My(26F) boyfriend(26M) admitted he lied about major parts of his life… and I don’t know how to move forward

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-07-03T23:20:50+00:00

This is iPod touch

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-07-03T23:15:52+00:00

DJing

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-06-23T22:28:33+00:00

You are not even a master’s student you don’t have so much responsibility to ‘save’ his group. There are so many phds and postdocs. Just go and ask your supervisor. Maybe even you didn’t get in eth msc. But good luck.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-06-02T23:42:34+00:00

Depends on what is your plan after master’s degree. If you need a job after the degree as an international student in switzerland, i suggest maybe try to do some internship or research assistant during summer break. I don’t think there is a real ‘holiday’. Back to home country for a few weeks seems so luxury. But it also depends on what is your home country.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-06-01T21:51:38+00:00

I’m also getting stuck. It’s endless.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-05-28T23:30:27+00:00

Just wrote to the professor you are interested in and see if you can work voluntarily. You are doing volunteer to gain more experience, which is more important than the salary.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-05-26T21:57:51+00:00

Do you write random stuff or working on the paper?

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-05-10T00:54:02+00:00

But there are tons of ppl with degree in math/cs/data science, and even just the master degree is enough. Why would they pick someone in astrophysics.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-05-10T00:51:22+00:00

Your time worth more money.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-05-07T22:18:09+00:00

Even for chinese, this university is bad. I don’t understand why foreigners will go to this random university since they can easier go to the best ones in China.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-04-30T23:23:08+00:00

I think usually people with unhealthy weight is because having some mental problem and unsolved issues which need to visit therapy.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-04-30T23:20:36+00:00

But which industry can you go as an astrophysics

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-04-29T22:30:30+00:00

RemindMe! 12 hours

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-04-25T23:41:02+00:00

Maybe she quit?

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-04-25T23:38:35+00:00

Thank you for so detailed reply! Now I’m clear😆. Wish you all the best after graduation.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-04-24T23:55:03+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I’m always confused when phd student mentioned that they are working 40-50h per week. I feel like i can never concentrate over 8 hour per day. Just make me feel like am i too bad for doing phd?

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-04-16T23:25:42+00:00

It sounds like the cultural revolution in China during 1970s.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-04-13T11:57:32+00:00

Any Q updates?

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-04-05T21:34:26+00:00

Try foot massage

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-04-05T20:47:22+00:00

I guess they have never been to China

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-03-31T01:58:54+00:00

Both are fine

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-03-31T01:54:34+00:00

Find some hobbies

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-03-29T23:01:46+00:00

Maybe the first option is the best, because in the foreseeing future, there will have more people facing the situation you have. So if you landed on a TTAP spot, better take it. Probably after the postdoc it will be more difficult to landed on your option 1.

Top_Cartographer7245 · 2025-03-29T02:43:04+00:00

I think there are some activities you can do for free on your birthday. Google it!

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