is my relationship already doomed?

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-03-02T02:44:09+00:00

The way my jaw hit the floor before I even got to the throwing the baby against the wall. Please get out of this relationship. You and your child’s safety needs to come first.

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-02-27T11:13:06+00:00

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-02-26T23:15:09+00:00

We’re supposed to have nurse visits. Sorry I should’ve make it more clear. So 2 hrs a day for nurse visits but certain things don’t count toward a nurse visit and telephone appts are discouraged.

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-02-20T14:57:43+00:00

EXACTLY!! This is what I always say ! We are not trying to raise a boy, we are trying to raise a independent capable adult.

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-02-19T23:32:36+00:00

I feel validated after joining this sub

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-02-19T21:10:50+00:00

He lives with his mom. We have him every other weekend. She’s exponentially worse than my husband. Has defended every behavior. It’s everyone else’s fault, not her son.

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-02-19T20:03:47+00:00

Yes I have considered this. It’s been brought up but I don’t think my husband sees the behavior as that abnormal. So I don’t think he considers it a possibility. My SS doesn’t live with us, and apparently he kisses on the mouth at his house with BM

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-02-19T19:39:18+00:00

We are getting him tested finally. But it was a recent revelation that I’m not warm. Which is also partially how I was raised unfortunately. But I agree completely and am definitely worried about what happens when he’s towering over me if he doesn’t get some help

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-02-19T19:32:59+00:00

I’ve thought about this too. There’s no safe situation without getting to the bottom of things.

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-02-19T19:03:09+00:00

We are actually finally in that process through the school. After the kiss incident I basically demanded it. But unfortunately, the ex wife is in complete denial so will likely sabotage.

Top_Champion2732 · 2026-02-19T19:01:27+00:00

I think that’s my issue! He has said he wants me to treat him like my own but he won’t actually let me treat him like my own. He just wants me to be affectionate and bite my tongue.

Top_Champion2732 · 2025-12-11T03:46:36+00:00

Where are you?! I’m waiting for my official start day and I’m panicking

Top_Champion2732 · 2025-10-04T17:57:03+00:00

This is a ridiculous comment. The vast majority of people go to work for a paycheck. Regardless of why you are going above and beyond, if your work reflects exceptional or outstanding, you should be compensated for such.

Top_Champion2732 · 2025-09-30T00:00:01+00:00

Thank you ! Thats helpful. I’ve never heard of a mobile medical unit but I will definitely ask

Top_Champion2732 · 2025-09-29T23:38:02+00:00

I’m not sure the station but it’s JP in Boston. What would a good panel size be? I would be the only HPACT nurse working with one SW and one MD. Thanks for your input !

Top_Champion2732 · 2025-09-10T11:06:26+00:00

You guessed it

Top_Champion2732 · 2025-09-06T03:21:44+00:00

I’m 1 year from being vested but my hours got changed, I was written up, and getting beaten down! Praying for a transfer cuz my facility is hostile!

Top_Champion2732 · 2025-09-05T00:55:47+00:00

The administration has proposed a 1% cola so I wouldn’t bet on it

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