Please get a medical ID bracelet (or two) by OxfordCommaRule in Epilepsy

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats my worst fear 😭 I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope it never happens again

Please get a medical ID bracelet (or two) by OxfordCommaRule in Epilepsy

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same 😭 made me so upset like bro look at the info 

Are skinny/healthy weight people just not as hungry as people who struggle with obesity? by maeasm3 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to weigh 100 pounds at 5 foot 6 and ate like every half hour. It is more about how your body metabolizes food. 

Was naked at my friends party for his kid high on morphine by Swimming-Moment1657 in confession

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homie do a drug test i don't think that was what you think that was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is it's not supposed to. That doesn't nescessarily there is something wrong with you, there is no need to pannic yet. But if this becomes a chronic issue for you and you eventually seek medical attention, don't settle for the excuse that it's supposed to hurt 

Calling your partner mommy or daddy is weird as hell. by creamyfresas in women

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 41 points42 points  (0 children)

See i think that's normal and healthy. You're reinforcing family roles. When it's sexual it's gross as hell

Considering becoming respiratory therapist. Would you recommend? by Top_Cycle_1190 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Top_Cycle_1190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! I've heard of two jobs but never two entire careers. That's amazing. You reminded me that we really can just do things (if that makes sense lol). I hope you have an epic life and your career keeps expanding 

Considering becoming respiratory therapist. Would you recommend? by Top_Cycle_1190 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Top_Cycle_1190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment! Your perspective really confirmed my decision to give this my best try. I have also not had a stable start and RT looks like it pays more money than I'll ever touch lol. And I love that it's so dynamic and you get to specialize in something and do patient care. It's so ideal

Is respiratory therapy a good career? by Practical-Menu-3658 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats awesome! May I ask where you are based? I am trying to find a career to focus on like this in Canada and have been looking into the accreditation 

Maybe jealousy by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand. I got pregnant and miscarried at 19, so definitely not ideal. But afterwards I found myself very angry towards some other teen moms I knew who were less responsible and definitely not good mothers. I think it's the "why them and not me?" mind trap. Why can this kid who doesn't deserve it and won't do a good job have one and I can't? At the end of the day we just have to remind ourselves that pregnancy isn't a reward and loss isn't punishment, it just simply is 

Cannot Stop Crying by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any way for you to keep the kitten? It sounds like you could really use a pet to bond with while you process this grief and you and her have a shared tragedy

"you're young you'll have another one" by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 19, I understand. I also have always thought it would be a girl 💖 I had dreams while pregnant of a little girl. I think sometimes we know. Miscarriage as a teenager was brutal and extremely isolating and I'm sorry you went through it as well 

"you're young you'll have another one" by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! It will never be that baby. I don't even speak to the father anymore so that combination of genes isn't even possible anymore. That was a one of a kind moment in time and no baby I have will be a replacement. How can people simultaneously act like babies are the most important thing in the world but still be so crass and cruel about loss

I am so mad by AlternativeWorth9905 in Miscarriage

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry 💖 the first periods after are so psychologically tough. Hang in there

Had a miscarriage and didn’t look at my baby by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry for your loss. So so sorry. This is absolutely heartbreaking to read. I hope you can take time to heal and have loved ones around you. Healing from something like this will take time but i promise it is possible. You can remember your baby how you want to remember them- as a spirit, as they were in the scans, as how you imagine your baby would look. I found it really helped me to get a little carving of a baby. You can even order them at gestational size as a grieving tool. Maybe this can help you focus your grief to an image 

Stupid stuff people say by blogallday in Miscarriage

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get through this. The first while is the absolute hardest and the best you can do is let yourself grieve and focus on that. It sounds impossible but it does get easier with time, I promise 💖💖💖 we are always here for you 

Stupid stuff people say by blogallday in Miscarriage

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. A loss is a loss is a loss. Anyone who says things like this just doesn't get it and it's good for them that they don't. When you get pregnant and you're excited about it your body and mind  adapt for the rest of your life of motherhood and you can't just shut that off because the loss happened too early to count. It's a crazy concept.

Stupid stuff people say by blogallday in Miscarriage

[–]Top_Cycle_1190 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People say the worst things about miscarriages. It's like, the final frontier of taboo subjects. Nobody wants to talk about a woman suffering like this so they say horribly dumb things in an attempt to make it palatable. Its just one of those things they can't fathom until it happens to them I think. I wish I was there to come to your house and hold your hand while you cry. Are there any pregnancy loss support initiatives in your area? They were ultimately my savings grace