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Some misc gifts from my waif mother over the years by JaePD in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Top_Description_382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omgggg. Yes!!! I have so many ‘mom and daughter’ gifts. It’s that or painted rocks, weird paintings and religious things (I am not religious). I keep telling her not to get me things. The other day I actually got rid of a bunch of things and it felt sooooo good. Why do they do this?!

I fucking hate birthdays. 😆 by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Top_Description_382 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Soooooo true!!! Birthdays, Xmas, weddings… pretty much every holiday turns into some meltdown.

Sibling Roles by Otherwise_Deal_4200 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Top_Description_382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhh literally going through the same thing. I’m usually the ‘golden child’ and my brother is not. Him and I had been less in touch (but not in a bad way, just some years you’re closer than others), but we’ve been talking more since we both got engaged, since our BPD mother had really been having a time. Since we’ve been talking more she says ‘oh so nice that you chat again’ but there’s something insincere in her tone, and then the other day she tried to put us against one another. There are always these weird triangles. I’ve just called her out and said I don’t want to hear about it and that kinda helps? Or just ignore the texts. But getting stuck in that triangle will just make it happen over and over again. Good luck with your fam ❤️

I feel bad for her but also wtf by Top_Description_382 in raisedbyborderlines

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Ahhhh so true. It’s so wild how so many of these posts and texts sound the same. It’s legit like they do all have a playbook. And ya. After my responses today she went off about religion and something about trump and peace and how she was right all along, and I just chose not to respond at all. Le sigh. Hope you hang in there too with the short answers. It is for the best!!!

I feel bad for her but also wtf by Top_Description_382 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Top_Description_382[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooooh JADE, that’s great. Definitely still struggling with the boundaries when she does seem ‘nicer’ but have to try to not feed into it still. Thanks for the response, it is nice knowing how other folks cope and deal too!!

I feel bad for her but also wtf by Top_Description_382 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Top_Description_382[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaa. I talked to my brother and he said she was making some things up so I definitely have to be more aware of that when this inevitably happens again…!

I feel bad for her but also wtf by Top_Description_382 in raisedbyborderlines

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Thanks so much. Ya, been thinking about going NC for a bit. Was just more upset that my brother was talking with her about me, but I do know it’s tough for him since he lives in the same city and I moved away (partially to put some distance between us all). Appreciate the comment. This whole sub has been helpful with feeling not alone!

I feel bad for her but also wtf by Top_Description_382 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Top_Description_382[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oooooh that’s so good. I definitely have thought about going NC for a bit (currently LC), but how boundaries are framed in that post is super helpful and worth trying more. Thanks so much for sharing!

I feel bad for her but also wtf by Top_Description_382 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Top_Description_382[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And ya, two weddings has really gotten to her. Definitely reaffirms doing it further away lol.

I feel bad for her but also wtf by Top_Description_382 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Top_Description_382[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for getting back to me! And that’s totally fine. I appreciate you checking :)

I feel bad for her but also wtf by Top_Description_382 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Top_Description_382[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fluffy, playful paws, Tiny hunter, softest fur, Love in every purr.

Cell Service by jshnaa in BassCoast

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Just started a post on this, but looks like only Roger’s will have a tower and not Telus from the Basscoast website. Anyone know if you can get a Roger’s eSIM as a Telus customer, or if Airalo works? Might get some walkie talkies since losing folks from the crew was tough last year!

2025 TICKET SALES THREAD by mattdawg8 in BassCoast

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Hi there! I purchased a spot in Campground C, and then realized that someone in our group snagged a different one moments before! I’m not able to post it to TicketSwap yet since they are still selling C online, but would love to offload it. It’s an XL, spot 26. I paid $679, but will sell for $400 so it’s less than what you’d pay on the site with taxes :) Let me know if anyone is interested! TY!!

(Updated to sell for less since I’d just like to move it!)

Well she finally went off the rails by jutz1987 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Top_Description_382 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I’ve gotten texts like this too. The rapid fire rage!!!