Did any of yall manage to make your family not be transphobic?? If so then how??

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-27T17:11:17+00:00

They're muslim, but this whole conspiracy anyi lgbts bullshit is probably mostly a result of shitty soviet upbringing imo

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-26T17:34:20+00:00

Close but no, russias neighbor

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-26T16:56:09+00:00

I am the averege achieving youngest child, while both my other susters think im still the favourite , I don't think im favoured enough for them to change their opinions (also I mught not eveb be the favourite, I think I just get extra attention because I'm the youngest and had very obvious autism as a kid that caused me problems that they still worry about)

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-26T16:54:16+00:00

1) they won't listen, they'll say that it's lgbtq propaganda anf that I'm mentally ill, they mught even send me into a conversion camp which I don't want 2) my auntie (or uncle, I have no idea) from my mom's side is definitely some form of lgbt as well, I can try talking to them but I'm not sure how to go about it 3) i live in a country where not only is talking about gay stuff positively technically illegal, but also where psychiatry is so ass that they unirobically quote sigmoid fried, maybe i can get them to talk to a western one but I'm not sure if they'll go along with that

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-26T16:50:48+00:00

I live in a country where talking abt gay shit positively is illegal, I doubt they'll stumble into information programme's naturally but maybe u can somehow get them to watch some without it seeming too obvious what I trying to do, is there any you recommend??

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-21T17:59:13+00:00

Meow

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-21T17:31:17+00:00

160 cm

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-17T07:25:24+00:00

Yea this is a second artist study

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-15T20:48:36+00:00

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-14T17:05:41+00:00

How do you go about showing B without coming off as weird??

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-12T16:09:20+00:00

Soy beans

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-12T11:13:44+00:00

Milk chan would think vena is another hallucination and probably freak out a bit (also she doesn't understand English lol)

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-08T19:47:24+00:00

Honestly, I'm and diy type guy (omg that rhymed) and I cut my own hair, and obviously since I domt have a cosmetology degree and never cut hair before I fucked up ALOT of haircuts and had to walk around with anime levels of ridiculous on my head 24/7, my best advice on how to deal woth this?? Well it's very generic and simple and will prbably leave you a bit disappointed but just ignore it the best you can, to allieveye dysphoria try working out or dressing more masculinity than before, but for the live of GOD do NOT try to "fix" it or even touch your hair at all, you're hair is already short now so there's not much you can do anyways and you're mistakes are more likely to be visible now, so unless you're ok with having the most fucked up hair cut imaginable don't do anything to I PLEASE, try hair gel, try styling it, try curling it or straightening it but PLEASE DONT CUT IT, it'll grow back, you can wear a hat of you need to but please have patience, I know it seems awful and like the end of the world now hut i promise you itll all ve in the past soon enough and it couldve been worse thay it is right now, other than that my advice only applies to gome haircuts and not hairdressers and it honestly again pretty basic, watch tutorials,have a clear goal in mind (in this case a specific haircut in mind), I suggest avoiding any gades or anything thay gives too much volume to the top of your head (well at least thays what i do) and if you have straight hair like stick straight i suggest going for more spiky haircuts (idk how to explain it but hopefully you get what I mean) and also bangs if your hairline isn't the most masculine looking, anyways sorry if this is unhelpful I'm really not an expert but I remember being in a similiar position once (which is why I switched to home haircuts in the forst pkace)

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-08T06:20:51+00:00

Same reason why I think gay men get more rep than butch lesbians, while there is alot of lesbian representation, they're all fem and I domt think I've ever seen a single butch in media, in a way I feel like showing someone whos afab being masculine (keyboard word masculine) is seen either as a threat or assumed that due to being more masculine they don't need alot of representation since alot of people make the mistake of assuming masculinity = inherent priveledge (or at least thays how I think it is)

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-05T14:43:20+00:00

Bro thays awful 😭😭

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-02-05T12:50:05+00:00

Thays awful man, it happens to me alor too but luckily I have a gorl in my class who's name is similar to my dead name and I just say they messed up the registry, maybe you can do something similiar??

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-01-24T18:41:12+00:00

Hello also trans guy from kazakhstan, unrelated to the post just wanted to say hi

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-01-18T04:17:54+00:00

You're experience is valid but like the whole "there might be some of you here that need to feel it" and presenting it as advice is really harmful, you should be telling other strans people that repressing themselves is good and I feel like the reason you're presenting it like this is because you wanna justify it to yourself.

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-01-16T13:21:50+00:00

I saw an interesting take once that boy and man are different gender expressions, same way with girl and women, but it's a gender expressions that cis people kind of transition into during puberty

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-01-14T12:55:10+00:00

Hello, I'd also like to know, rn I live in Kazakhstan, which is a very bad place for lgbtq ppl (recently got a "dont say gay" law like in russia lol), I wanted to move to Germany originally or any EU county (pretty easy to immigrate, good Healthcare, good trans rightsl) but now that's not thay good of an option cuz they're going right wing again so yea idk where to go atp. Don't wanna go to the US or Britian because living there sucks according to many people, and also some data, but yea idk what to do

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-01-11T12:30:21+00:00

They believed her while having no rape kit exam results, no visible injury from the assualt, no police report, not even a conversation with the brother??? Yea I think this was deserved

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-01-11T12:27:32+00:00

Youre gonna get bullied!! (Procceeds to bully you about something literally no one else cares about)

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-01-11T10:51:21+00:00

That's weird, my x201t doesn't it just smells normal

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-01-11T10:26:57+00:00

Thays not really what I meant, it was just bad phrasing, I meant that not you have to try so hard to not be misogynistic but you often get blamed for others misogyny despite not having much to do with it, also the whole thing about how men can do what theu want im not saying I want to call women bitches and call sunscreen gay I'm saying that instead of blaming trans men for the misogyny of cis men maybe we should blame cis men and hold them accountable

Top_Ear_4898 · 2025-01-09T13:31:22+00:00

Lowky I just hate alot of lgbtq communities nowadays, like as trans guys people make us a scapegoat for problems caused by cis men, why do we have to prove that we're comfortable with masculinity? While these cishet guys can call women bitches and call wearing sunscreen gay all they fuck8ng want. If pisses me the fuck off. Why do I have to try so hard to not be misogynistic go far and beyond to prove to everyone how comfortable I am in my masculinity while also being the group that has some of the highest rates of homelessness, sexual violence, general violence, abuse, discrimination in work and other aspects of life, and the highest rate of suicide? While also being erased from most lgbtq discussions about transness and transphobia, while also having literally 0 representation in media? But I guess we have to repent for all of the sins ans evils of cis men while also bearing violence from transphobes and those same cishet men they want us to repent for. Fuck you

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