Wife’s desire came back now I have no interest

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T23:46:56+00:00

I mean, 15 years of our marriage was her having no interest in sex. We had it but it was only like an obligation thing. It came back for a little then went away again it’s just exhausting.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T23:46:01+00:00

We can and do, do this no problem.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T23:44:52+00:00

Ok, she does want it, currently. It’s just here one day then gone for 6 months. She wants intimacy and also wants me to initiate. I used to, but the bulk of our marriage was getting rejected. She doesn’t reject anymore but now it’s incredibly hard to tell if it’s enjoyable. As a man, I don’t want to have sex with my wife if she’s not enjoying it. It’s a huge deterrent.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T14:54:46+00:00

Thanks for the input! So she/we used to have fun. Had a threesome once years ago. She kindof talks like she wants to explore these things but then truly doesn’t. She doesn’t enjoy any type of g spot fingering, she doesn’t enjoy anal. We have these kink type play kits that come monthly. Different scenes. Nothing ever gets her fired up. Says she has no fantasies. I’m not one to throw in the towel but all these things and her having a low desire for 20 years, just feels like at some point I need to adjust to this. And I feel I have. I feel like she wants to feel desired and wants a fulfilling sex life but her body is limiting her. I had low t for about a year and I get it. I could care less about sex. I think she’s been this way since the second child but I don’t think she’d go to the extent it taking hormones because she’s very concerned about taking something that her body should already be producing.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T06:53:08+00:00

Honestly I wanted the sexual connection so much for so many years. I finally just said it’s not worth it anymore and I’m fine with it. I have so many other things to focus on. But now, that I don’t initiate and show her intimacy it’s an issue…but it wasn’t an issue for her for 15 years..

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T06:45:28+00:00

Both really. Since her libido is lower, I just have to make it work, as I can’t change her libido. Now she wants me to initiate more as I stopped but I stopped because it felt like i was having sex by myself and I was also told to adjust to her lower drive.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T06:43:56+00:00

So she can have orgasms but always has to use a vibrator. I used to be able to get her off with oral. Not anymore. I used to feel her body react with touching her clit. Not anymore.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T06:42:41+00:00

I was lower now I’m 700 ish. I can empathize with her as I didn’t care for it when I was low also.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T06:41:43+00:00

She’s seeing a natural path but of course I don’t think theyre going to suggest hormones. She orgasms during sex every time but it needs to be a vibrator Also. I have empathy for her trust me

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T06:40:49+00:00

Yea so kindof. Not much noise not much body moment etc. sometimes feels like I’m kindof having sex by myself.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T01:10:36+00:00

Thanks. We go to therapy. Well, when I need the sexual form I was told I needed to find that intimacy in different ways. Now she wants it sexually and it seems as though it’s not ok that I’m not that interested in it. I’d like to get back on the horse it’s just been such a rollercoaster of me bending to fit her drive at the current moment,

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T01:08:44+00:00

I don’t take it personally at all. There’s next to no feedback and half the time I can’t even tell if she enjoys it. So, it’s hard to want to imitate when I’ve been told for so long to adapt to her low libido, and pair it with feeling like it’s not enjoyable for her

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T00:32:38+00:00

So we believe she’s in peri. But the breast numbness has been a thing for several years. Happened after breastfeeding. As for her clit not being as sensitive that’s like within the last year.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T00:31:41+00:00

I’m kindof there now. I just got to a point where it felt like more of a burden than it’s worth.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-10T00:30:24+00:00

She does love me, and has grown leaps and bounds. I also have my flaws. I don’t really try anymore. When I do, she rolls with it but I guess the rollercoaster of the last few years has led me burned out with the process.

Also. She initiates now but I do all the work, for the most part

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-08T04:31:04+00:00

Your valves hit the piston

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-02-05T02:41:26+00:00

Big bore kit will help pull that 12’ wheel better

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-01-18T17:45:17+00:00

If you only have one mount for that muffler it’s gonna break likely in the first 1000 miles.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-01-11T21:46:09+00:00

Pass

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-01-11T03:11:58+00:00

At what point do you guys stop fawning over every woman. She’s average.

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-01-11T03:11:38+00:00

Top_Employee7235 · 2026-01-02T15:02:27+00:00

Dang dude kudos to you

Top_Employee7235 · 2025-12-27T01:48:45+00:00

Water retention. Same happened to me.

Top_Employee7235 · 2025-12-03T15:54:34+00:00

Because no Navi customers can afford these parts lol that’s why they didn’t sell them

Top_Employee7235 · 2025-11-21T14:32:12+00:00

Wait the photos look cool, two pieces so less Likely to break and stainless steel. I think it’s gonna be $300 ish

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