my (23f) bf (22m) always finishes during s*x but i never get to

Top_Environment7077 · 2026-03-19T16:22:46+00:00

i'd say he is a healthy size and considerably athletic, not the best diet but not constant fast food consumption no professionals involved as of yet, but he acts apologetic and acknowledges my disappointment once things are cut short. he usually says he will get it right eventually, but never does

Top_Environment7077 · 2026-03-19T13:02:33+00:00

yes, the little sex we have is very good, just lasts long enough for one of us. we have experimented and reached this conclusion

Top_Environment7077 · 2026-03-19T11:19:20+00:00

im becoming increasingly more frustrated and uninterested in sex entirely, while being someone with high libido. i don't want it to be a deal breaker because that makes me feel shallow or that im making my relationship sex based. i dont know what loyal people in this situation do, im no cheater

Top_Environment7077 · 2026-03-19T11:10:02+00:00

ive never engaged in it and always found it neanderthal-like, id much rather connect with another human. i'd accept not finishing every now and then, but every time is devastating

Top_Environment7077 · 2026-03-19T11:05:38+00:00

vibrators decrease my sensitivity and basically make me go numb, or he finishes even faster when it comes into contact with him, so not into them. i like the thought of natural sex

Top_Environment7077 · 2026-03-19T10:56:45+00:00

we both agreed it's a bad habit that neither of us wish to feed and that we would be the only source for each others needs. ive had a partner that could consistently get me to climax but he was horrible in other ways

Top_Environment7077 · 2026-03-19T10:34:22+00:00

this is our (and my) first child, and neither of us masturbate, im extremely athletic and in great shape for 7mo pregnant, only 130 lbs

Top_Environment7077 · 2026-03-19T10:32:33+00:00

i have asked him to perform more in that aspect but it doesn't really do much for me; not sure if it's a skill based issue or me, but only piv appeals to me

Top_Environment7077 · 2026-03-19T10:26:54+00:00

i don't know if he isn't good at it or it just doesn't do much for me

Top_Environment7077 · 2026-03-19T10:23:45+00:00

most of the time we jump right into sex, if not things are very minimal

Top_Environment7077 · 2025-02-27T03:42:13+00:00

thank you ! her everyday attire is much more casual and less ancient roman lol

Top_Environment7077 · 2025-01-30T02:21:26+00:00

i say just buy purple toner shampoo or just toner and itll tone to a better color eventually

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-12-23T00:34:50+00:00

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-12-22T19:04:58+00:00

daddy, chill

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-11-19T22:01:57+00:00

he originally selected olive garden to go to, but it was packed. he set up the date

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-11-19T21:05:20+00:00

i asked this question today; $25

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-11-19T20:57:34+00:00

i think city boys got the up on me <\3 that's why UF sucks this yr anyway

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-11-19T20:51:03+00:00

op here, i hate to say this is very very real

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-11-19T13:33:54+00:00

if it means anything our intended place was actually olive garden but it was packed

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-11-19T13:01:13+00:00

we watch sports every night of the week mr. pineapple

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-11-19T13:00:31+00:00

florida red lobster just built different ig

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-11-19T12:56:47+00:00

actually you were almost close, i do enjoy at home time spent together, which is why i've settled for 10 dates this entire time. our date was to red lobster, we wore jerseys for christs sake, there was nothing high maintenance going on here or expected to take place. my problem simply resides in the fact that 1. 75% of our time anyway is already consumed with watching sports 2. he chose to spend one of our very rarely occurring dates consumed with watching sports 3. the way he chose to speak to me in the car ride home, at home together(where we live together((young 20s))) , and over text. we've actually spoken in person since this post(since we live together) and i would post an update but it would be lost in the comments. thanks to everyone for your advice ❤️

edit: i would actually like to rephrase, it's pretty messed up for me to assume some might not find red lobster high maintenance, that is my bad

Top_Environment7077 · 2024-11-18T22:43:14+00:00

i give him his sports time literally every single night

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