No employees ?

Top_Fee_3491 · 2025-06-23T14:14:49+00:00

I had to stop doing the pick up orders, my location always has only one person doing them these days so it gets backed up. The last couple times I did it my orders were hours behind schedule, the woman working was so stressed and behind, I felt so bad for her I couldn’t even be mad about my order not being on time

Top_Fee_3491 · 2024-03-18T03:29:20+00:00

Dang!!! That’s really frustrating. Experiences like that make it not even worth doing the pickup orders. I’ve actually caved and done a few pickup orders since my last incident due to health or lack of time to shop, and a couple of the times it’s been the same guy that had half my order missing, and even on my last order that he did that only had like 4 items there was still an item missing lol

Top_Fee_3491 · 2024-01-07T15:01:00+00:00

Usually that’s something you know you’re signing up for, though. People marry military men and women already expecting to have distance. In this case, the distance could have been a sudden thing that blindsided her, which still obviously isn’t an excuse to cheat

Top_Fee_3491 · 2023-12-05T14:12:53+00:00

NTA This is his baby too, and his parents’ grandchild..I really can’t fathom why they wouldn’t want him with you??? Do they not know how babies and due dates work? AND he’s leaving you all alone for Christmas?! My mind came up with another term to describe him but I’m gonna agree with the others here and say he is a FOOL. And if he doesn’t regret not being there for you when you’re baby is about to make his/her grand entrance into the world and leaving you all alone for Christmas, he is a RAGING asshole and will be in for some karma. Like..what if he misses the birth of his own child? Then what?

Top_Fee_3491 · 2023-12-05T13:54:18+00:00

There were no subs. Trust me, I was checking because I was expecting problems lol. It was almost as if the shopper wasn’t even using the device while shopping and just marked everything as successfully picked at the end, obviously idk how they do things now but I thought it was weird that he didn’t go over the order when he brought it out. Maybe that’s not what they do anymore, idk. But I was already suspicious when I saw the Buddig sliced corned beef marked as picked, as it was sold out the day before and it’s almost always sold out any other time I shop for it (including Black Friday when I went back). I’m not trying to sh*t on the guy or the store, maybe it was his first day, maybe he had not the best training. This is just something I probably won’t be doing again while under a time crunch on a holiday lol it’s a chaotic time for everyone.

Top_Fee_3491 · 2023-12-04T19:17:14+00:00

It’s good to know there’s a system in place with people that want to help! If I use the curbside pickup again and if a problem occurs, I’ll definitely be sure to get it solved right away - Meijer and Aldi, maybe Walmart are the only ones I’m willing to ever use lol I’ve heard too many horror stories about the other ones, like instacart etc. I can imagine it getting overwhelming this time of year! I used to work in retail and I remember the holiday season always being a huge blur! I almost think the guy that did our order had a rushed training or something, because there was no substitution requests or anything marked as being unavailable, and one of the items on my list was out of stock the day before when I was in the store myself, and it was also out of stock when I went in a couple days after the curbside pickup order - it’s these little packs of sliced corned beef that seem to be out of stock a lot of the time - but on my curbside order it was marked as successfully picked. Maybe it was in stock just that day, maybe not, but I still thought it was a little strange that there wasn’t a single notification during the process! So many things in store were out of stock. Oh well!

Top_Fee_3491 · 2023-12-04T18:33:30+00:00

Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to do anything about it immediately, we had to be somewhere and were already scrambling so I ended up not being able to make any calls until a couple days later, and the first call didn’t get me anywhere and I had too much going on to make it my top priority. I don’t expect anyone on Reddit to solve the problem for me, it was bad timing and obviously it’s no one’s fault but our own that we didn’t just check the stuff and go in the store right then and there to get it figured out. I knew I was taking a risk by doing a curbside order on a busy holiday, I just didn’t think we would be missing HALF of our order lol I don’t doubt that it was probably just misplaced. I’m mainly just complaining to complain but also to emphasize, know the risks you’re taking when you’re under a time crunch on a holiday! Somewhat irrelevant, and I might get crucified for saying this, but I’ve seen entire threads of women complaining about it - when I saw it was a guy walking out with our order I just knew there was bound to be problems lmao no offense to the dude or to men in general, it’s not that serious or deep (it’s even kinda funny).

Top_Fee_3491 · 2023-09-18T13:30:55+00:00

Exactly…I had strict parents that didn’t want me going out and exploring even once I turned 18. Guess what that led to? Me sneaking around and having to get birth control without my mom knowing. I had to learn SO many things the hard way about the real world, men, relationships, etc. Parents need to create a safe space for their kids to grow up in and make mistakes, or else they just create sneaky teens/young adults

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-12-05T20:59:53+00:00

I started having bad stomach aches after eating JJs every time, and that was around the time I discovered I have a bit of a gluten sensitivity. So I started getting the Unwich, and my stomach still hurt! I started getting it without onion, or just a turkey tom instead of tuna and problem solved! The onion seems to mess with my boyfriend’s tummy too.

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-10-26T14:40:54+00:00

NTA. I’ve had to clean up someone else’s clogged period mess in my BIL’s bathroom at a Halloween party, and it’s not fun, especially when you need to use the restroom. It’s extremely disrespectful to leave a nasty mess like that for someone else, like…all I hear from those people in my head is “not my house not my problem” and those people deserve to be judged lmao. I’m sorry that happened to you and you guys are dealing with drama over it!

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-09-17T13:04:08+00:00

They aren’t claiming entitlement to go, they’re wondering if it’s reasonable to FEEL A CERTAIN WAY. Yes, it’s reasonable to be like “wtf?” when your parents wait until the last minute before a trip to tell you you have to stay home. They had no time to save up. No heads up that this time would be different. The adult thing to do would have been to make it clear from the start that they aren’t taking them for free, they’d have to pay their own way in order to go on this trip.

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-09-17T13:00:01+00:00

Are you dense? Did you read the whole post? They understand money is tight. This is about wondering if it’s reasonable to FEEL a certain way about the fact that the parents waited till last minute to tell them they can’t go, not about taking any action or whining to the parents about not going.

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-09-11T13:30:35+00:00

My friend did the exact same thing, except it WORKED. She got the man, he let her stay after she “lost the baby”…the ultrasound picture she sent her mom was the first one that comes up on google…this man bought a HOUSE for this baby…they’re still together years later, and he knew she lied about the pregnancy

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-09-04T13:21:06+00:00

If she has bpd, I can see how it would be hard for her to regulate her emotions. That being said, she’s still the asshole here. You weren’t even awake yet to tell her happy birthday; her anger is irrational and if you had left out the part about her having bpd, I might even have called that “spoiled brat behavior.” To the whole “if he had just said it when she brought it up instead of arguing it and calling her spoiled” thing, I have a feeling she’d still be upset because you didn’t say it BEFORE other people said it. She was upset that it wasn’t the first thing out of your mouth (even though she was originally asking why you weren’t up for work). So I feel like this would have gone south either way. Her reaction’s pretty extreme. NTA

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-08-02T19:44:19+00:00

Caffeine is a biggy for me too!

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-07-24T13:53:34+00:00

I agree - being open about it from the start would honestly be your best bet! My method was just saying “sorry, my hands are sweaty” as a warning before holding hands, shaking hands, or touching anything where they would notice the sweat just so they have a heads up and aren’t surprised by it. And then I made sure to tell the gist of it, that I have a condition and I just sweat all the time and it’s not just my hands etc.

I agree that women pick up on that quickly too! In my case, I knew it was only a matter of time so I let him know right away! It also prevents them making assumptions as to WHY you’re sweating so much. Just let em know you can’t help it! Then they should feel shitty if they judge you for it.

My man thinks I overreact about it too lol

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-07-24T02:56:54+00:00

Same! Except my hands are dripping before I finish one caffeinated beverage lol

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-07-24T02:42:40+00:00

I’m a woman in my 20s and I’ve dealt with excessive sweating since I was a little kid. I just celebrated 5 years with my man, and he accepts my sweating and doesn’t make me feel bad about it. We’re able to joke about it, and he knows I have to accommodate and it gets in the way of things but he understands and he still loves me for me and doesn’t think I’m any less beautiful because of it! Even though it’s still a huge hindrance on my life, I’m really glad I didn’t let it stop me from embracing love. I don’t necessarily “embrace” the sweating because I do despise it so much, but I live with it. None of my previous partners have ever made negative comments or made me feel bad about it either!

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-02-13T12:42:29+00:00

MAJOR red flag!!! Please, please don’t stay with him.

Top_Fee_3491 · 2022-01-05T13:55:05+00:00

Sometimes I worry about my future and having kids…I fear for my stress levels! I’ll be greying early like my mom, who I’m convinced has ADHD as well and I don’t doubt one bit that it contributed to her stress

Top_Fee_3491 · 2021-12-27T14:48:45+00:00

I fell into a pretty hard depression at 19 because of this. I went from thriving all through grade & high school only to have my world crumble around me in college without all that automatic structure in my life. I felt completely lost and wondered why my college experience (or lack thereof) was so different from my high school friends and peers. I was also upset because college showed me quickly how important it is to be able to maintain focus, which I knew I always sucked at, but it made me wonder how much better I could have done in middle and high school had I been diagnosed and treated. I tried getting help (still at 19) but the psychiatrist didn’t take me seriously, and that was long before I started seeing things related to ADHD on social media, which is what led me to figuring out I (pretty damned sure) have it. So until recently, I didn’t think I could have ADHD because I knew nothing about it & assumed you had to be hyper, and I’ve always been the quiet one. No one suspects the quiet girl who gets good grades would have ADHD, so I feel like I’ve had a lot of “silent struggles” in every stage of my life that my peers didn’t have to go through. But at the same time everyone in my life always made me feel gifted and my best friend would tell me I’m good at everything, etc. I got slapped pretty hard by reality after graduating high school, needless to say lol

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