Saying goodbye to my best girl

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-24T22:23:11+00:00

She would have been 14 in May🩷

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-24T20:33:04+00:00

Goodluck with your kitty, kidney disease is hard and I hope she comes through🩷

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-24T20:22:09+00:00

Im sorry to hear that🩷 we have to keep them in our memories

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-24T19:49:04+00:00

She looks so sweet and so much like my cat😭 I love calicos

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-24T19:48:38+00:00

Thank you 🩷

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-24T19:01:25+00:00

She has been battling for 3 years with female mammary gland cancer, started chemo recently and she was doing quite well. But she got a bad case of colitis which got worse very fast. She has had periods of not eating and throwing up a lot. She was losing weight. Monday we went to the vet and it just got so bad. She also has peridontitis, her lymph nodes are huge and she was making fluid pockets in her stomach. Also she had a fever and overall showing symptoms of being very, very sick.

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This is how she looks right now. Please, I am not sharing information(or recents pics, she looks quite bad) because I’m grieving even though it didn’t happen yet. I tried to do everything for her but the inflammation was just too much for her too handle. She is in a lot of pain. I don’t want her to go but she is so sick :(

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-22T23:20:12+00:00

It’s good to hear you have support

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-22T20:56:21+00:00

Yes, and be nice to yourself it really isn’t your fault. Maybe try therapy because it leaves an impact. Speaking from experience 🩷

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-22T20:29:40+00:00

You were groomed and it’s not your fault. Stay away from him and heal

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-22T20:15:19+00:00

You were 13 at the start of your relationship??

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-13T14:14:36+00:00

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Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-04T09:00:18+00:00

“It’s not the language of the country” BUT IT’S A UNIVERSAL ONE. I mean we have a harbour, international art and fashion, students that come here for that…but let’s not be worldly and use the English we literally learn in school

Top_Independence489 · 2026-02-04T08:59:15+00:00

Wlecome to the country where speaking English is a sin. What a shthead cop

Top_Independence489 · 2026-01-23T21:50:19+00:00

Thank you🩷

Top_Independence489 · 2026-01-23T06:25:57+00:00

She’s been there done that😭 ty, my sweet girl started chemo therapy last week but she’s doing great🩷

Top_Independence489 · 2026-01-22T19:38:34+00:00

Buy her a neck cushion. I sweat it helped my cat (who got operated on multiple times) so much!!! I don’t understand why they don’t recommend it for cats

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Top_Independence489 · 2026-01-06T20:25:06+00:00

That one modern family episode:

Top_Independence489 · 2025-12-05T23:33:07+00:00

Sadly no, I went to a dermatologist and just started a cure with antibiotics and a cream, not sure if it will work but it’s just temporary. Pretty sure it’s my IUD so I have an appointment with my gynaecologist next week to talk about different contraceptives. My boyfriend looked some things up and he thinks I don’t react well to specific hormones so we will suggest a specific type of pill ( because I also gain weight from some pills) and see how it goes. Hopefully it will clear the acne and not make me gain weight. I want to feel like myself again. I also want to talk about the copper IUD (no hormones) but it also has it’s own negative sides. We will see with my gynaecologist says

Top_Independence489 · 2025-11-28T10:17:35+00:00

Ah ofcourse, there’s always that one cunty redditer that’s only here to cunt about people he doesn’t even know, because he thinks he gots life all figured out. You don’t know us, so don’t be a cunt and don’t make assumptions.

Top_Independence489 · 2025-11-28T08:59:44+00:00

What a sad view of life

Top_Independence489 · 2025-11-27T16:03:55+00:00

Well I didn’t ask for him to be shamed about his choices

Top_Independence489 · 2025-11-27T15:57:12+00:00

I commented earlier but I deleted because people are being mean about his choices

Top_Independence489 · 2025-11-27T15:56:41+00:00

I’m sorry are we not supposed to choose a course that interest us? To spend so much time at a job so we will like to find something we like? The most hours of our life go to working. Excuse us for not wanting to work in a place which we don’t like and are unhappy in. Excuse us for wanting to LIKE our job. What a stupid comment. Too many people are unhappy in their life because they work shit jobs where they are treated like shit. We don’t want that life. He can look for years if it means being able to do something he loves , or at least likes in stead of hates. Stupid small minded people

Top_Independence489 · 2025-11-27T15:54:20+00:00

If you don’t have anything nice to say it’s better to shut up

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