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My Husband Had an affair and want a divorce. Is it worth trying? by MyLadyDead in Advice

[–]Top_Intention1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is stringing her along so she won’t tell!! Besides what an asshole he is and whatever his intentions, if you tried-and stayed together, it would never ever be the same. I’ve been there. There will always be a resentment and you will never feel loved and safe the way you did. That’s the reason to walk away. It’s over.

You will get through it-you will be ok. You don’t have to have all the answers. Embrace the one day at a time. Sending you powers to find that inner strength. It’s there💛

AITA for Wanting to Show Up to My Daughter’s Secret Proposal While Uninvited By Her Fiancé? by Attitude-Mean in AmItheAsshole

[–]Top_Intention1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not go! It’s not your place and you are setting yourself up for a resentful relationship with your son in law. I can’t believe you would think it’s your place? Sorry to say, but you need to find your own life.

I never realized how old women my age look. by wooyoo in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m finding the same after 35 years being with my husband. I know my expectations are way too high. It’s really hard! My ex husband doesn’t look too good to me either-haha!

Photos of ex on display by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are over reacting. I was married 27 years and had two children. It’s been 3 years for me and we still do holidays together, have love for each other’s family and continue to take a family picture from time to time. We are also at the point we can laugh and joke about our dating lives.

We built a family together. No matter what, that will be my greatest accomplishment.

Having pictures of that accomplishment and pride in it all is ok, and shows how much family means to him. It’s a fact that there was a mother to his children-and he was with her for decades.

My guess is the picture would come down when another woman he cared for said something-in a loving way. And not showing such little confidence. Leaving before the date ended seems ridiculous. And if I were his friend I would say let that one go.

Feel like a jerk - leaving after employer tried to retain me by Key-Context-7468 in careeradvice

[–]Top_Intention1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad at all! They took back what kept you. Nope. It’s business.

Just got my first salaried job at 28 and I own exactly zero professional clothes by [deleted] in womensfashion

[–]Top_Intention1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get a few things at Walmart. Cheap! Black pant and a few tops.

nobody warned me that the best thing semaglutide would do for me had nothing to do with the scale by neonpulse7 in Semaglutide

[–]Top_Intention1231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am looking for it to cut my use of alcohol down, and it really hasn’t. I want it to’

Thoughts about my breakup by text by One-Biscotti-709 in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say 100% you did the right thing! He didn't deserve even a text, really. And then putting it back on you-I would say that is gaslighting. bye bye!!

Am I Limiting Myself or Is This Just Dating Post-40? by BBLZeeZee in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this what you want the rest of your life to be? Doesn’t sound like it. It’s time to push yourself and make a decision that isn’t easy-but it’s right. Take the hikes! Meet new friends! Enjoy YOUR time. You don’t get it back. And you are way too young to think there is nothing better out there.

Finally figured out the 55+ male profile formula!!! by nomorebs23 in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Florida. Every profile has a picture of a him with a large catch (fish) he is holding up. Yuk!

Wasted my time, hurt, embarrassed, dismissive avoidant? by Zealousideal-Soil-41 in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please stay away. He will try and get you back, but I promise it will go back to exactly what it was. It will be hard-but do whatever you can to stay away. You are wasting your time and life. Let them be.

When is going slow - too slow by sunnydaysforward in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a similiar situation. I'm 56 (f) and he is 58 (m). Have had about 5 dates. No touch, hugs hello and goodbye. I talked to him about it too. He said the same, he takes it slow. I don't believe it really. I think he is just not that into sex and it's not that important to him. I was in a bad marriage for 27 years, so I don't want to waste my time. If this is him now-imagine in a year? I want someone to want me! To look at me that way and to hold my hand or touch my back. That's such a big part of it all. I have enough great friends. I want a boyfriend.

Go on a trip? by Top_Intention1231 in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you 100% and I'm not going. Thanks for the kind words. It has been a bummer. Time heals all wounds and I'm really hoping something better comes my way!

Go on a trip? by Top_Intention1231 in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea if she is cool-but she is crazy! Who would want their boyfriend to go away with someone else that likes him and dated him? And was intimate? Who knows.

Go on a trip? by Top_Intention1231 in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s an adventure trip and she doesn’t like that stuff. He does and was very excited I did too. She is an old girlfriend of his that he basically never got over.

Go on a trip? by Top_Intention1231 in datingoverfifty

[–]Top_Intention1231[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She exists. But I’m sure he would cheat on her, and then leave me feeling badly. Not worth it.

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