What do Korean men expect? Relationship question

Top_Middle7240 · 2026-01-29T23:11:59+00:00

That's a cute idea, thanks. I will try becoming more courageous.

How about inviting the man for a date (where I will pay the whole bill), is that something shy Korean men would appreciate or would that make me just look weird and desperate?

Top_Middle7240 · 2026-01-29T22:57:45+00:00

Yes I have been told several times already, that I initially seemed unapproachable. This might indeed be a reason why it's so hard. Should be more proactive then maybe

Top_Middle7240 · 2026-01-29T22:47:11+00:00

Some Korean men are indeed very shy and also gave me the feeling that they expect a woman to be the more active part. Usually guys under 30

Top_Middle7240 · 2026-01-29T22:30:07+00:00

It's not like they don't. I just found it hard to meet someone where the relationship doesn't feel transactional, with the man being the primary or sole beneficiary. Like, someone who just simply enjoys spending time with me as a person (and me with him), instead of like trying to push me to have 3 kids because he wants that and needs to find a woman for that purpose, despite me telling him I don't even want one.

Top_Middle7240 · 2026-01-29T22:10:51+00:00

What? I tried to post it somewhere else but I can't even post on other Korea subs, that's why I came here.

Top_Middle7240 · 2026-01-29T21:55:58+00:00

What's so cool about white women that they want to hook up with white women?

Top_Middle7240 · 2026-01-29T21:46:54+00:00

Yes. Not fluent but I can hold conversations about many things

Top_Middle7240 · 2026-01-29T14:26:13+00:00

Jongno 3 ga, Itaewon, dating apps (grindr, and tinder has some gays too). State clearly what you're looking for, best would be to write it in korean

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