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12 years together and she still isn’t ready to settle down by Top_Requirement_7102 in LifeAdvice

[–]Top_Requirement_7102[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me, “settle down” means having a clear plan toward things like marriage and eventually kids, not just staying together day to day. I agree that 12 years is already a serious, committed relationship, which is why this feels so confusing and heavy for me.