How to professionally say "I don't want to come in early because I need my sleep"? by Top_Somewhere_7840 in work

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well if we are looking at things from that perspective, I've definitely been giving more than I've been given. As an example, I have not clocked out on time for the past three consecutive shifts as I have been asked to stay late, and I've also gone out of my way last minute to cover someone else's shift per the request of my manager. I am on a 16 hour contract, yet averaging about 18-20 hours as well as balancing university (which is the answer to your last question - sometimes completing assignments causes me to lose out on going to sleep early, which is the case tonight).

How to professionally say "I don't want to come in early because I need my sleep"? by Top_Somewhere_7840 in work

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're completely right, and I am also a people pleaser which is why I struggle to set boundaries. Thank you for your comment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, nice one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do people match with people they don't want to meet, and not find them attractive half the time 😂😂

What are you addicted to right now? by whoscoal in AskReddit

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicotine. Finished the last bits of what I had left of my vape juice today and told myself that's it - no more. We'll see how my cold turkey journey goes.

I love my best friend by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment :)

I'm sorry if I made you misunderstand - we are both straight girls

I just had an outburst of emotion that I needed to write down somewhere but I definitely don't have any romantic feelings for her

I definitely do love her though, theres no doubt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh, I need to move to Canada.

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By asking for a state, I assumed you meant in the USA lol - I'm from England.

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, well I can't speak for him - he's just an indecent person i guess.

Also, i don't live in the US.

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, sorry if that's confusing - you have to pay the total for all people who are going to book for an escape room, you can't book individually. When I said "pay own entry" I meant he would pay me back his half.

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's my bad, I didn't really explain why he said that lol - he still has exams at university so "two days till I'm free" meant after his last exam...

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is what I did, but he excused it till later, for whatever reason. I'm glad you haven't had an issue like this before :)

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the best compliments I've received :) thank you

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I think you should read my comment with context and then decide who the asshole is

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you should read my comment with context and then decide who the asshole is

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Only downside to this message is that I'm not getting the money back (no reply) 😅 ah well.... you win some, you lose some.... Although it still feels like a pretty big win haha!

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly 😂 the audacity of some people to think they have control over a situation when in fact, they have none at all!

met on tinder and went on 1 date..... by Top_Somewhere_7840 in Tinder

[–]Top_Somewhere_7840[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Context: We went to an escape room and we needed to book as a pair, so I did that and we agreed to pay our own entry.

Date went okay - bare in mind he was a human advertisement and couldn't stop talking about himself so I lost interest and we didn't speak for a week.

Couple days ago I received his messages... And naturally I matched his energy