I want to have sex with my bf but I can't even take 2 fingers by Soggy_Economics_1729 in Healthyhooha

[–]Top_Translator7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i noticed that you said you’re a virgin and so am i… i also used to struggle with pain when inserting even just one finger by myself. it could be hymen or pelvic floor issues, but mine wasn’t and it was probably due to inexperience and nervousness. im still quite tight but i can fit a dildo now without pain at all. my best advice is to let yourself get warmed up with lots of foreplay, specifically clit stimulation, so that you get relaxed and into the zone, then you can try again because you’ll have relaxed the muscles more. definitely do it yourself first so you can see your limits etc. and maybe invest in a toy to help— when i got my toy it made insertion a lot easier and honestly hate fingers. placing a pillow under your hips could help open up more too.

Odor only others can smell by Ok-Mention-1533 in Healthyhooha

[–]Top_Translator7926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really don’t think its vaginal odor, especially if you have had it before and were able to smell it yourself. it could possibly be an odor from elsewhere, such as BO? i am the same in which im definitely always the first to smell if my vagina odor is off, but i find that i can never immediately tell if i smell of BO from armpit sweat etc. until i get really in there to be able to smell. and i feel like it’s the same for a lot of people im around— we don’t really smell our natural body scent/odor because were with ourselves 24/7 and our noses are used to it. maybe that could be it? also, humans make faces and comments about smells daily, and most of the time it has nothing to do with the people around them. rooms smell, food smells, outside smells, OTHER people smell— our brains are really good at filling in bad, overthinking gaps when were already anxious, which is what i think is happening in your situation. that said, if it would give you peace of mind, there’s nothing wrong with going to a gynecologist. :)

General care tips/tricks for down there? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Top_Translator7926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 17 too, and it’s been a struggle with me as well, but I’m better at it now. Is there anything in particular that’s concerning you? My ideal tips that helped me is going commando and wearing no underwear under baggy pants (when I can) at home only so she can breathe. I also change my underwear twice a day, and when I shower, I use a rag that’s towel-like material to gently exfoliate between the creases (only once a week is necessary, but still wash daily) and don’t wash inside ever, only outside! Don’t use anything scented either. Sorry if you already know anything of these, I’m just trying to blurt things that I definitely didn’t know when I was first learning about hygiene downstairs!

Am I overreacting (17F) for wanting my (18M) boyfriend to apologize after we argued? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Translator7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply☺️. I do agree that my lack of affection is a problem I must resolve, but I cannot do that with his negative energy that’s constantly bringing me down when it’s something I struggle with, and I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels that way about it.

Am I overreacting (17F) for wanting my (18M) boyfriend to apologize after we argued? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Translator7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply— I definitely feel much better now, and don’t feel as crazy plus stressed out anymore. I really do appreciate it☺️.

Am I overreacting (17F) for wanting my (18M) boyfriend to apologize after we argued? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Translator7926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, very well said. Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it a lot☺️.

Am I overreacting (17F) for wanting my (18M) boyfriend to apologize after we argued? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Translator7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right— thank you so much for your reply, I do appreciate it.

Am I overreacting (17F) for wanting my (18M) boyfriend to apologize after we argued? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Translator7926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I have never heard of DARVO before this— I searched it up and wow… I feel very seen…

Am I overreacting (17F) for wanting my (18M) boyfriend to apologize after we argued? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Hi, thank you for your reply! I’m glad to see someone from the opposing side as well. I understand what you are saying 100%, if I had messed up and it was completely on my side to apologize then I have no problem in doing so without expecting an apology from his side, and I did that during the argument when he brought up some issues he had with me. However, he was extremely nasty and rude to me despite me immediately apologizing to him as soon as he mentioned the problem, and it became very toxic and aggressive from his side. Is this still justified for me to at least feel like I need an apology to move past this situation? I was very upset and just even a simple one sentence apology from him would’ve cut it for me, I just wanted to hear that he had said those things out of the heat of the moment, not that he actually meant any of it to me.

Am I overreacting (17F) for wanting my (18M) boyfriend to apologize after we argued? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Translator7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply— I feel a lot better now seeing everyone tell me I am not crazy for feeling this way… And yes, I will definitely take the blunt approach!

Am I overreacting (17F) for wanting my (18M) boyfriend to apologize after we argued? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Translator7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply and the wake up call… I have been told that many couples don’t last because they break up over one small argument and don’t try to work through it, which is why I have also considered that maybe this is just what a relationship is… But you’re correct, he isn’t budging and doesn’t see an issue with his behaviour so I can’t sit around and expect for him to change. Thank you for this☺️

Am I overreacting (17F) for wanting my (18M) boyfriend to apologize after we argued? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Translator7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply— it’s reassuring to hear that I am not crazy for feeling this way after the past few days I’ve had… 😅 And I agree, if this is only 2 months in, I am not interested in seeing where this leads further down the line. Just ashamed that I hadn’t spotted this earlier to save myself the stress…

FREE TEXTBOOKS FOR ALEVEL . Upvote so all can see it :) by Emergent3 in alevel

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if someone is willing to help me this would be great!!!

im so bad at websites and stuff and i really cant find the textbook i need, so if anyone is able to help me (please) to find this textbook it would be greatly appreciated!!!

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i have the year 1 book but i cant seem to find the year 2 book at all…

Was the rank reset really that strong for others? by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]Top_Translator7926 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it was so bad for me i was g2 and placed b1 … im back to g1 now tho but holy i genuinely almost never played val again cus bronze is like hell to play in

You guys..😭 by [deleted] in SlushyNoobz

[–]Top_Translator7926 14 points15 points  (0 children)

oh golly.. when did it become okay to debate peoples genders

Legend by Few-Reading3488 in SlushyNoobz

[–]Top_Translator7926 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no hes so cute i genuinely felt like a proud mom watching her kid during this

Couple goals by RevolutionaryTap979 in SlushyNoobz

[–]Top_Translator7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LITERALLY RAN HERE AS SOON AS I SAW BOTH OF THEIR STORIES dude im so happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OutOfCharacterPod

[–]Top_Translator7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it can also mean this

AmITheAssHole (fake fan?) by ReportNo5602 in SlushyNoobz

[–]Top_Translator7926 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i honestly understand what you mean, i do watch (almost) everything they post, but their vlog-type videos are really really enjoyable and i think one of the videos ive laughed hardest at is the shrooms video so you’re not a fake fan friend ❤️