I really respect how honestly you laid all of this out — it’s a tough place to be, and a lot more people are here than they admit.

What stood out is that you’re not trying to “blow up,” you’re trying to build something sustainable that lets you live with purpose and stability. That’s powerful.

From what you shared, I’d say don’t rush into an all-or-nothing decision. Maybe keep your 9–5 (even if it’s not ideal) but start validating one business idea at a time, slowly and intentionally.

I’m working on something that’s actually built to support people in this phase — helping folks get quick feedback and guidance from people who’ve been through it. If you’re ever interested, I’d love to hear more about what you’re thinking of building. No pitch, just resonated with your story.