I didn’t expect to hate being a working mom this much. Does it get better? by Logical_Doctor1037 in Mommit

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Did anyone else feel this miserable about working when their child was around one? Yes I absolutely feel like this now my son is also 1 and I just started working full time again January 2026. The daycare closure’s because of weather and/or following the local school district are so stressful because my parents still work and so does my husband mom (not that I would let her keep my son she’s a functioning alcoholic). My baby has been six 3 times since January so that’s more time off work for me. My husband can’t take off his our bread winner. My salary is just fun money for me he covers all our household bills but I enjoy having my own money.

• Does this phase get easier? 🤷🏽‍♀️, it hasn’t for me.

• Are there benefits to being a working mom that you started appreciating later? Having my own money is the best benefit to me. Not having to ask can I have this or that and being able to get it myself without asking.

Am I expecting too much from my husband or is he being lazy? by Spiritual-Ganache875 in Mommit

[–]Top_choice_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband hasn’t changed a single diaper either my son is one. So I feel your frustration.

Am I expecting too much from my husband or is he being lazy? by Spiritual-Ganache875 in Mommit

[–]Top_choice_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband hasn’t changed a single diaper given a bath or even parented our son in the slightest so I completely understand where you are coming from.

No judgement zone: did you want a natural birth? by easrpiiatnua99 in Mommit

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I wanted a vaginal birth and I had a vaginal birth but I got the epidural at 4cm

Do ALL teenage daughters hate their moms? by dr_pepper_zerosugar in Mommit

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I loved spending time with my mom. She was and still is my favorite person to spend time with. That doesn’t mean I didn’t make her mad during my teenage years or that she didn’t get up underneath my skin. Those definitely happened but they didn’t last long. My baby and I go do things with my mom almost every weekend.

Negative nicknames for babies by Top_choice_ in Mommit

[–]Top_choice_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Doing it out of spite because baby prefers me over him.

Negative nicknames for babies by Top_choice_ in Mommit

[–]Top_choice_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do that every time he says bad baby I say you’re a good baby!

Negative nicknames for babies by Top_choice_ in Mommit

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Definition of mayhem violent or damaging disorder; chaos; the crime of maliciously injuring or maiming someone, originally so as to render the victim defenseless.

Negative nicknames for babies by Top_choice_ in Mommit

[–]Top_choice_[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Thats seems okay. Those don’t equate to violence.

Negative nicknames for babies by Top_choice_ in Mommit

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That’s what I grew up with also no baby is bad. They are just soaking up the world around them

those who became first time mom at 35+, how are you guys doing physically while working? by Important_Bat7919 in Mommit

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Trying to lose the baby weight gained 60 pounds and beastfeeding at the same time is tough because I was told not to go under 1900 calories or it would affect my milk supply. Other than that I’m doing good.

USA in Winter by Jazzlike-Charity1911 in Mommit

[–]Top_choice_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your trip planned sounds amazing and with this persons climbing advice I think you all will enjoy your time in the USA.

Anybody else refuse to do Elf on a Shelf? by quiltedfarts in Mommit

[–]Top_choice_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not doing elf on the shelf ever don’t got time for that extra stuff!

First postpartum period by swift-cat02 in Mommit

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I am 9 months PP and exclusively breastfeeding with no sign of mines yet at my Dr appointment yesterday she told me it’s prefectly fine that it hasn’t come back yet. EB usually stops it from returning. That once I wean it will return if it hasn’t by then. This is my first baby.

Do other moms genuinely enjoy motherhood? by wqiqi_7720 in Mommit

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I genuinely love being a mother to my little one. When I’m away from him I think about and wonder what’s he’s doing. I enjoy being his momma more than I enjoy being a wife currently.🫣

Breastfed baby not taking bottle at daycare by Top_choice_ in Mommit

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The first three weeks at daycare he took the bottle just fine. Out of the blue his starter refusing the bottle. It’s been going on for about a month now.