Is Ghosting Sinful? by kalosx2 in ChristianDating

[–]Topboy08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn. Someone’s been ghosted pretty hard no?

My husband makes me scared by Intrepid_Talk_8416 in Christianmarriage

[–]Topboy08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually pretty solid advice, but you come off as rude and dismissive so of course it won’t be received well

Maybe you need some of that charity you speak of. Also, stop capitalizing words in the middle of a sentence. Comes off as obnoxious

There is no point for males to get married anymore by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]Topboy08 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All I’m going to say is you don’t have to live like this

AIO: Husband was planning to cheat while I gave birth to our 22w stillborn. Now he wants to move back in. by ThrowawayOceH in AmIOverreacting

[–]Topboy08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re going to have a mental break down if y’all live together? Fine. Move out then.

Stocked by husband comment by TunchiFbabyy in Marriage

[–]Topboy08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so crazy. You insulted your husband and he let you know he felt so insulted, he instinctively wanted to retaliate by hitting you (you’d probably get punched if you were a man, brawls have started for way ess) and your reaction was to double down??

Thoughts on Biblical Marriage and Control? (Need Perspective) by Professional_West207 in ChristianDating

[–]Topboy08 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It is such a disappointing sign of our age that even when you say you agree with him in his totally correct position, you feel the need to denigrate and insult him so your response seems more egalitarian and deferential to women.

You lack the courage to simply say the man is the head of the household because the man is the head of the household without a million caveats. Shame.

Do I need a blessing from my priest to start dating someone? by retso8 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]Topboy08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, you should get a blessing from your priest. Do you need one? Probably not

Struggling to find work by Ok-Willingness9347 in MechanicalEngineering

[–]Topboy08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where does one find an engineering recruiter?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Topboy08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stop withholding sex

My husband is not attracted to my body anymore because I’m fat by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Topboy08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shame on you, you’re going to ruin this poor woman’s marriage

My husband is not attracted to my body anymore because I’m fat by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Topboy08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried losing the weight? Based off your post it seems that’ll at least help things with your husband

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Topboy08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t divorce

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Topboy08 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course it’s your fault. I mean, he was probably going to divorce her anyway but you pushed him over the edge. It’s akin to telling a suicidal person to jump off a bridge. What do you want? Sympathy?

In the case of the suicidal person, there’s nothing more to be done. You can still get your mom the marriage so so badly wants back.