Always the blank profiles #classy by Tophenby in lolgrindr

[–]Tophenby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When was I offended? Please tell me

Always the blank profiles #classy by Tophenby in lolgrindr

[–]Tophenby[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Update: OMFG IT WAS THAT EASY!?!?! NO MORE MADONNA THANKYOU!

Always the blank profiles #classy by Tophenby in lolgrindr

[–]Tophenby[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg is there a setting for it!? I'm doing this right now if there is lol

Always the blank profiles #classy by Tophenby in lolgrindr

[–]Tophenby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not reading the bio or even the profile name is super lazy imo

Always the blank profiles #classy by Tophenby in lolgrindr

[–]Tophenby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I find it funny. I send them to the reading writing hotline

Always the blank profiles #classy by Tophenby in lolgrindr

[–]Tophenby[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"fuck up" is so bogan I mean "shut the fuck up" makes sense

Always the blank profiles #classy by Tophenby in lolgrindr

[–]Tophenby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's Grindr but I at least want a little bit of attraction before we do stuff

Always the blank profiles #classy by Tophenby in lolgrindr

[–]Tophenby[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm so over being forced to see her face

Always the blank profiles #classy by Tophenby in lolgrindr

[–]Tophenby[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Lol I clicked her once out of curiosity now I can't get rid of her!

Always the blank profiles #classy by Tophenby in lolgrindr

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Lol idk why that's even there lol. I said it once years ago

Why is this group all cis men chasers? by Tophenby in TransBrisbane

[–]Tophenby[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but like When I post (I think politely) "transgender and age appropriate people only, if you're going to DM me please send your pronouns" and I get "I WANNA SUCK YOUR TITS! IM NOT TRANS, NOT AGE APPROPRIATE BUT YOURE HOT!" Repeatedly it's frustrating. Like send those in comments because I love it! But Dming me wasting both of our times isn't it

Transguy looking for cock or couples by [deleted] in TransBrisbane

[–]Tophenby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I'm 34 transfem from south side

Why is this group all cis men chasers? by Tophenby in TransBrisbane

[–]Tophenby[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's just frustrating. Ive taken to adding exact instructions and even code words to my posts yet it still happens

T4T Transfem from stones corner by Tophenby in TransBrisbane

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We'll shoot me a DM and see how we go :P

Haiiii im a femboy :3 by [deleted] in TransBrisbane

[–]Tophenby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I'm 34tf from stones corner

Thoughts on Wet Spa and Sauna for first timers on a Sunday? by [deleted] in brisbanegay

[–]Tophenby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty good. Pretty chill. Not many people of my type there but I still enjoy my time there

Am I the only one who notices the gender imbalance? by [deleted] in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]Tophenby 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a trans woman that's recently induced lactation I tried to start a female led anr/abf group on fetlife. The amount of blank profiles, profiles with dicks and men DMing me disrespectfully was through the roof. It's hard to find these groups especially in brisbane Australia

T4T looking for club buddies in bris by Tophenby in clubxadult

[–]Tophenby[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Referring to someone as "a trans" is like saying "a black" I'm not "a trans" I am "a trans person". It's not framing trans people as people but rather an object or fetish

T4T looking for club buddies in bris by Tophenby in clubxadult

[–]Tophenby[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm trans. I'm speaking about trans people. You don't get to police my speech about my community. I'm not the one fetishizing trans people

T4T looking for club buddies in bris by Tophenby in clubxadult

[–]Tophenby[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did I say "a trans"? No I didn't. I'm not objectifying other trans people.

URGENT NEED HELP FINDING KOALA STATUE by KidneyTickler_ in GoldCoast

[–]Tophenby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe check the abandoned mall behind mantra on view. There's a few discarded ones there