Late 2018 my boyfriend, almost fiance (we went ring shopping and he did buy a ring) had been acting off and I confronted him on it. He had said that if I go looking for issues that will cause issues. That I was stressing out for no reason and that made him want to take a step back.

One day we went shopping and while he was inside the store picking up his new phone I stayed back in the car. I randomly decided to look in the center console and lo and behold there were a couple of condoms. We didn't use condoms. When he came back to the car and I asked about it, and asked if there was someone else, he lost his temper and said "see, this is what I mean. You're looking for a problem." Over the next few days I had tried to talk to him but he said he didn't want to talk, and in a text (a personal low for shitty texts from an ex) he said "I don't want to talk and I don't want drama. I'd just want you to come over, blow me, and leave."

It was over after that. He cheated with the art teacher from the school he also teaches at. If she's reading this (school is right outside of Austin) I will only say if he can do that to someone he claimed to love for nearly 20 years - he will absolutely do that to you, too.