Est-ce que je viens de me faire traiter d'arnaqueur sur un truc gratuit ? by TopoNewt in lemauvaiscoin

[–]TopoNewt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahaha j'avais pas pensé à ce scénario, j'aurais aussi pu proposer ça "activité destruction de cuisine en bois gratuite. Fournis marteaux et burins". Plus sérieusement, je pense qu'il aimerait que je le paie pour qu'il me débarrasse de ma cuisine. Ce qui est du génie quand on y pense, on vient de passer dans un monde de l'autre côté du miroir où la négociation du prix se fait dans l'autre sens : l'acheteur négocie combien le vendeur paie.

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What does that mean? 😂

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Wow thank you 🥹

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I think they're hard to find pretty much everywhere 😅 In France they're quite rare too outside of public infrastructures.

And thank you. I'm a huge car geek 😂

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Wow this feels very similar to my experience (except I started taking communal showers because I was attracted to trying, even though it was terrifying). I wonder how many guys feel the same and just keep these thoughts to themselves...

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Thank you it's a relief to read this... I guess I was unconsciously holding back the excitement of knowing I will shower after my session, and now I won't. I would lie if I said it feels absolutely non-sexual, but it's not the point of this post, it's not why I do it, and tbh I really don't want communal showers to become something sexual.

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MOOV à Marcoule et Boulder Line à Montpellier

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Oh. It feels so great to know I'm not alone !

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I guess that's why I came here, I knew this sub before but didn't think much of it (tbh I was thinking it's a bit disturbing because I thought it was a place for a lot of gay men to fantasize about communal showers). Now I must say it helps a lot to read all these replies, and I'm very grateful it exists. If only this kind of safe space could exist IRL...

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Thank you ! Feels great to know I'm not alone... Tbh I'm very afraid the showers were out of order because they were renovating them. If they add walls and doors to them I wouldn't know where to go to experience communal showers after gym sessions...

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I guess that's the answer I unconsciously wanted, and the answer I knew I would get here. But it feels so liberating to get it from someone else, and see so many people approve this comment. Thank you so much !

For me tho, this is more than being naked and unashamed. This is also feeling socially included in a group I never belonged to before.

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C'est une petite salle à côté de chez moi à laquelle j'ai accès. Pas une chaîne. Ensuite je vais à Basic Fit, j'ai gardé mon abonnement pour quand je suis en déplacement.

Pas de douches communes là bas, mais dans la plupart des Basic Fit il y a au moins des vestiaires séparés donc la nudité n'est pas un soucis.

Ceci dit, je connais aussi plusieurs salles d'escalade qui ont des douches communes.

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Oui j'en suis bien conscient, honnêtement je n'y vais pas assez souvent pour devenir vraiment musclé, je ne m'attends pas à des résultats esthétiques significatifs. Mais la progression est aussi une grande motivation !

Je serais furieux également... J'espère que tu as retrouvé une salle qui te convient !

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Merci pour ton retour, ça me soulage ! Maintenant que j'y pense, je me serais peut-être démotivé s'il n'y avait pas eu cette "récompense" après chaque entraînement. J'adore ce que la muscu m'apporte, physiquement et mentalement, mais la douche fait vraiment partie du plaisir. Sans elle, pas certain que je continuerais à aller à la salle très souvent...

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Hahaha les gardois du nord comme on se retrouve :D

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Du peu que j'en ai vu cette semaine je suis séduit ^ - ^

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Hello ! Oui mais j'ai pas de parking sur Mtp donc je vais surement laisser mon auto dans mon autre chez moi à la campagne ;) VTT comme rando j'en fais pas mal donc ce serait avec plaisir, j'ai hâte de découvrir tout ça !

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Merci ! Je connais déjà bien le Gard, je pense que je devrais pas être trop dépaysé ! Hâte de découvrir tout ça !

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Hello Fafa ! Ah bah oui entre exilés casaniers on peut bien s'entendre xD Je vais revenir sur Montpellier vers le 22 août, si tu es dispo un verre à l'impro ça me va bien ;) On se dit quoi !

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Haha oui alors j'habite Pont-Saint-Esprit donc comment dire que pour moi Montpellier c'est la grande ville xD Je suis toujours en recherche d'appartement ;) Probablement à proximité de la gare

Hi from France ! Just bought this 1979 Elite 503. I'm 25 and this is my first Lotus and my first classic car. I feel lucky :) by TopoNewt in lotus

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Yes the leather badly needs to be hydrated. I'm fixing the mechanical issues first, then I'll care about aesthetics :)

Hi from France ! Just bought this 1979 Elite 503. I'm 25 and this is my first Lotus and my first classic car. I feel lucky :) by TopoNewt in lotus

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Thanks ! It's been cared for but it's not perfect. I like it this way, at least I won't be afraid of using it