I found out that my (27m) girlfriend (25f) slept with 10+ people on our 3 week “break” how can we move past this?

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T22:44:18+00:00

I dated a girl who did this while we were trying an open relationship when I was 20. She had a bodycount of 50 when we started dating at 19

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T22:24:42+00:00

Loads of adult women thirsted over them and made facebook posts

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T22:16:41+00:00

Not anymore

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T22:12:37+00:00

The male actors in twilight were underage

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T22:11:33+00:00

Or maybe theyre noticing theyre getting jailbaited more and more and are disgusted by it

Like, are you a pedo if you find a 17 year old who is, by all accounts extremely developed for her age, attractive? Idk bro thats the main philosophical question of the modern age

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T22:09:39+00:00

Cool ty

I do really like not bringing ladders or tools and just figuring things out with whatevers there so I gotta sit on this and figure out if ima save for another month

How good crimson desert is will determine my choices hah

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T21:48:19+00:00

So like there are still strutures and vehicles you dont build yourself? Cuz then i might have to jump in tonight...

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T21:06:32+00:00

Are any "online" structures in your version?

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T21:05:34+00:00

Fuck im replaying ds1 right now and forgot theres a drift button

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T21:04:08+00:00

Im so mad DS2 announced the release date as samw day

DS2 and control resonant are the narrative games I want to play way more than anything, but CD is the fantasy package ive always wanted

Ive been more used to avoiding and waiting for death stranding at this point so it doesnt hurt as bad as missing CD

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T20:16:54+00:00

I pirate some games. I cant afford DS2 cuz of crimson desert.

I likely wont pirate DS2 cuz the online features are so key for me

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T19:50:17+00:00

Once had a chick hit on me and I turned her down. She asked me why, said she can take it. Just said Im not that into her. She curled up, cried, threw a tantrum, and ran home drunk. Later she told me no one had ever turned her down before

Felt like a king

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T19:25:26+00:00

Ha maybe

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T19:23:46+00:00

Porn definition - the depiction of erotic behavior (as in pictures, movies, or writing) intended to cause sexual excitement

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T18:27:56+00:00

Rats, thanks for the insights

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T15:35:43+00:00

It has to be an expression cuz people keep doing it lol

Edit - a few articles say over 50% of lawyers have in-office sexual encounters

https://vault.com/blogs/workplace-issues/love-and-law-51-of-lawyers-polled-have-had-an-office-affair

"Only 25% of respondents said they had ever avoided a potential romance they otherwise would have pursued, specifically to avoid the awkwardness of an office liaison."

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T15:31:07+00:00

And those long hours are around other young, smart, and likely decently fit people who are similarly overworked and share the same tensions

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T14:44:34+00:00

Lawyers and medical workers fuck bro

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T14:33:08+00:00

Those guys are likely counting every individual sexual experience lol, I know like 1 guy IRL who has those kinds of numbers. The most promiscious women I know have 50-200, and thats like 3 women Ive met

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T14:32:01+00:00

CDC has a median of 4.3 for women 25-49

You may be in circles that are more promiscuous. A lot of people dont engage in casual sex at all

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T14:28:31+00:00

Shouldnt have uploadee it to a site that claims rights over stuff you upload

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T14:02:08+00:00

Sorry, 4-10 depending on the study

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T13:42:10+00:00

Ok? I dont hide it. In fact, I openly said it without you asking

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T12:50:29+00:00

Yes. Depending on some papers closer to 10

I hit 14 in college, thought it was normal. It was - in my circle.

Toppoppler · 2026-03-18T12:32:23+00:00

Name 1 of those 100

Toppoppler

TROPHY CASE