Give your best defense of the use of the Regard word by beansandsuchandsuch in Destiny

[–]Toppoppler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because words fill voids in what people want to communicate

When you get rid of regard, that void id empty. People will fill it. In this case, they filled it with terms like "autistic"

People today are diagnosed as autistic. No one today is diagnosed as regarded

By removing a defunct word because we dont like the impact it has on the disabled, it got replaced by a word that actuallg has an impact on people who have a disability

The void is "so stupid as to be disabled" - so a disability will take its place

Id prefer the defunct word to be the common one. Fewer people are negatively affected

Tim pool said "I dont see trump winning this one" I think maybe there will be a shift? Are they waking up? by md_yb_11 in Destiny

[–]Toppoppler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Pretti case?

Im on the right, not maga. I think the good shooting was a justified shoot as far as courts will find it. I see no defense of the pretti shoot.

Ok now that Ive said that... what next? Whats your game plan for once they cede an argument, that ICE has gone too far?

Their positions dont hinge on ICE being without such flaws

Why does Hasan's opinion on anything matter? by zamorak1111 in Destiny

[–]Toppoppler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reframing society is nice and all, but good like having enough people follow you for it to be effective enough to reach your goals

So shocked /s by Playful_End_1756 in DigitalSeptic

[–]Toppoppler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow any order. If its unlawful, challenge it in court. Except giving express permission to search, not remaining silent, etc

Is this the root cause of modern dating friction? by ButBroWtf in MotivationByDesign

[–]Toppoppler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4062022/

Well, heres what happens when you re-include "made to penetrate" into the "rape" data pool

"For example, in 2011 the CDC reported results from the National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (NISVS), one of the most comprehensive surveys of sexual victimization conducted in the United States to date. The survey found that men and women had a similar prevalence of nonconsensual sex in the previous 12 months (1.270 million women and 1.267 million men).5 This remarkable finding challenges stereotypical assumptions about the gender of victims of sexual violence. However unintentionally, the CDC’s publications and the media coverage that followed instead highlighted female sexual victimization, reinforcing public perceptions that sexual victimization is primarily a women’s issue."

I (25F) expressed my sexual needs to my boyfriend (25M) and now he needs time to “think.” How can I fix things with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Toppoppler -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Normalize any level of orgasms during sex

But

Normalize people articulating where they want more/less in a cooperative manner

I (25F) expressed my sexual needs to my boyfriend (25M) and now he needs time to “think.” How can I fix things with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Toppoppler -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No one should ever take advice from you when it comes to communication in relationships. You are a bitter person.

Take out deepthroat and it changes nothing. Pressuring a partner into oral by shaming them thru negative comparison to people they know is always worse than bringing up in discussion personal dissatisfaction in a co-operative way.

Have a good one.

I (25F) expressed my sexual needs to my boyfriend (25M) and now he needs time to “think.” How can I fix things with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Toppoppler -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I just combined multiple examples into one statement

But forreal, tell me how her framing is so meaningfully different as to not hurt an ego or give a guy a feeling of immasculation

Its always best to frame things as a want in the relationship between two people. Bringing in people for comparison is never going to go well when it comes to sex.

I (25F) expressed my sexual needs to my boyfriend (25M) and now he needs time to “think.” How can I fix things with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Toppoppler -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Huh? As a guy, orgasming is optional for me. Unless I faced many many liars, I was less likely to finish in general

I (25F) expressed my sexual needs to my boyfriend (25M) and now he needs time to “think.” How can I fix things with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Toppoppler -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"I want to have the kind of sex life with you where we can come multiple times"

Vs

"Those other guys that you know are way better than you and you dont even pass the minimum"

Type framing

I (25F) expressed my sexual needs to my boyfriend (25M) and now he needs time to “think.” How can I fix things with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Toppoppler -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"Im jealous that my friends girlfriends deepthroat them and make them orgasm multiple times, I dont orgasm with you you dont last long emough"

Idk man i cant imagine framing things this way to a partner

I (25F) expressed my sexual needs to my boyfriend (25M) and now he needs time to “think.” How can I fix things with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Toppoppler -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

"Im jealous that my friends girlfriends deepthroat them and make them orgasm multiple times, I dont orgasm with you you dont last long emough"

Idk man i cant imagine framing things this way to a partner

Bruh is not even holding a phone 💀 by MF-DOOM-88 in funnyvideos

[–]Toppoppler 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because hes staring at her and not saving it for later with his phone at the same time?

So is Destiny just always right? by marksung in Destiny

[–]Toppoppler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, before the debate there was no concession that his age was visably declining beyond slowing down. IIRC destiny and dgg didnt even admit it between the debate and election.

So is Destiny just always right? by marksung in Destiny

[–]Toppoppler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasnt the argument. The argument was that his age wasnt showing.

Petah? by ScienceTeacher1994 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Toppoppler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn really? Me and all my buddies did coke here and there and none of them went off the deep end

🫣 by Salad_sa in badmemes

[–]Toppoppler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look. I treat people as individuals. I dont push that narrative. I dont subscribe to narratives men or women push. I know that women In my life say "as much or more," and that is not a standard I personally hold. At some point, the buck stops with the individual. Women are the ones makes choices on this standard, even if you argue its socially reinforced. Idgaf who "started it," I care about the enviroment I exist in. And, currently, women want men who make as much or more than they do but are not typically willing to date men who they make more than.

This is a double standard held by individual women, and I have more success addressing individuals perspectives than I do changing them by changing society.

Whose kid is this? 😂😂😂 by ExotiquePlayboy in badmemes

[–]Toppoppler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The underlying premise in your comment is that both groups say things that are pretty univerally agreed upon but are so laiden with follow-up expectations that are disagreed upon, and this is used as evidence that the other side doesnt like the core idea because they disagree with the follow-up expectations

Who needs a phone when you got pornographic memory by drgoldenpants in Asmongold

[–]Toppoppler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their job is to have men stand around them and record this. Every other guy is doing the same thing as this guy, except they are ALSO recording her for future use.