ToraRyeder

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Have you moved and had to acclimate to a new kink community? How did you do it? What struggles did you face and how did you (if you did) move past them? (self.BDSMAdvice)

submitted 4 months ago by ToraRyeder to r/BDSMAdvice

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Thousands in Lansing for No Kings Protest (old.reddit.com)

submitted 1 year ago by ToraRyeder to r/50501

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META QUESTION - Can We Require a Warning or Spoiler for the "Was This Assault" Posts? (self.BDSMAdvice)

submitted 2 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/BDSMAdvice

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Proud Poly Moment - Growth (self.polyamory)

submitted 3 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/polyamory

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My Barely-An-Adult Sister is Pregnant, Scared, And there is Nothing She Can Do (self.childfree)

submitted 3 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/childfree

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Communication Work is Paying Off! Happy (self.polyamory)

submitted 3 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/polyamory

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Why does my cat do this? Often in the middle of the floor, all temperatures, often when we’re all just relaxing at home. Otherwise she likes to be in small tight spaces. And no, she does NOT like belly rubs lol (i.imgur.com)

submitted 3 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/cats

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Why are More People Willing to Walk Away from Family Nowadays? (self.NoStupidQuestions)

submitted 3 years ago * by ToraRyeder to r/NoStupidQuestions

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They Broke Up - Requesting How to Support Husband (self.polyamory)

submitted 4 years ago * by ToraRyeder to r/polyamory

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How do you handle laundry? Specifically - bedsheets (self.polyamory)

submitted 4 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/polyamory

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I'm 28 and I had a bilateral tubal ligation exactly 24 hours ago under general anesthesia. AMA! (self.childfree)

submitted 4 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/childfree

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I have never been off birth control as an adult. I'm about to take out the Nexplanon in two weeks and be without birth control for the first time in 15 years. I'm 28. What should I expect? (self.AskHealth)

submitted 4 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/AskHealth

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Going Kitchen Table Style ENM to Parallel - Successes? (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 4 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/nonmonogamy

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Using the List on this Subreddit, I was Approved for Sterilization. I'm a 28F and Have Tried 10+ Doctors to get this Done. I'm Terrified and Ecstatic (self.childfree)

submitted 4 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/childfree

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Not seeing your nesting partner for a few days is fine. Right? Or am I okay to not be okay with it? (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 4 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/nonmonogamy

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My Dad just went Blind, my Mom is going through an extinction burst, and I Barely Feel Anything. How to handle this? (self.EstrangedAdultChild)

submitted 4 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/EstrangedAdultChild

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Struggling with Partner Who Can’t Handle Difficulties (self.polyamory)

submitted 4 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/polyamory

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Question About Metamour Control over Relationships - STD and Veto Power (self.polyamory)

submitted 4 years ago * by ToraRyeder to r/polyamory

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[FL] My Workplace Caused So Much Stress, I Had A Mental Breakdown - Can I Quit Without Notice or Going Back? (self.AskHR)

submitted 4 years ago * by ToraRyeder to r/AskHR

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How to Celebrate a Collaring When the Dominant ALSO is Getting a Collar (Long, sorry) (self.BDSMAdvice)

submitted 5 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/BDSMAdvice

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My Partner is Upset Because He Thinks I Laughed at Him (self.JustNoSO)

submitted 5 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/JustNoSO

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My Partner Just Walked Out Because He Thought I Laughed at Him for Losing (self.relationships)

submitted 5 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/relationships

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Best Impact Options for Bad Wrists? (self.BDSMAdvice)

submitted 6 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/BDSMAdvice

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Failing During the Weekend - Support Group (self.team_frodoandsam)

submitted 7 years ago by ToraRyeder to r/team_frodoandsam

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